Howl The Truth
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Howl The Truth - where comfort dies and truth lives.
This isn’t just another podcast. It’s a call to wake up and better yourself. We’re howling the truths most are too scared to say - raw takes, real stories, commentary, and no-holds-barred reactions to the world around us.
If you’re tired of fake news, soft minds, and filtered narratives… you just found your tribe. We will be also be showcasing our Apparel, Supplements, Coffee and Smokeables.
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🔥 Hosted by Patrick Kane, founder of The Howl Life, this show is for the real ones - the ones who see through the noise and refuse to back down.
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Speaker 2:It's gonna go to tiktok later because I don't go on tiktok no yeah, yeah, it's gonna go.
Speaker 1:It's gonna go to tiktok I don't do tikt. Yeah, we're still setting up, so just give us a quick minute.
Speaker 2:He's really unprepared.
Speaker 1:No.
Speaker 2:I'm not. You know what he didn't forget.
Speaker 1:The liquor Am. I part of the pack, I mean I guess, all right, welcome to how Alive this is going to be a one-of-one actually whenever we're doing this again.
Speaker 2:Since we're in a small space. No, we could just do this instead of clapping, because it's small and it's like a poetry. Slam. Anything you say that's going to be good to me. I'm going to go like this.
Speaker 1:Okay, queen thank you so much hi everyone, I'm shaley.
Speaker 2:Which camera am I looking at? Uh, all right, so I don't want to look at any cameras.
Speaker 1:Anyone that's on IG. This is basically you're tuning into a live recorded podcast where we had a lot of questions. Come through, we have our own questions.
Speaker 2:A lot of topics we'd like to cover.
Speaker 1:Anyone that's on Instagram. This is basically just a side view of our live recorded podcast. If you're on Facebook, you're getting more of the full view. So I hope you enjoy it, you know, and if you don't, all right. So my name is Patrick.
Speaker 1:I am the owner and CEO designer of the Howell Life. We're a lifestyle brand. We have apparel, smokable supplements, coffee. I have another company that's called Tea Aesthetics, so I'm kind of in the wellness space in a bunch of different capacities, and the reason why it's a lifestyle brand is because I think that all of these things kind of coincide together.
Speaker 1:You know, if you go to the gym, I think you also take supplements. You probably drink coffee in the morning or tea. Um, I mean, the smokeables don't really fit in there too, but uh, those are more for people that are trying to get off of marijuana, slash thc, or for people that are trying to get off cigarettes. There's a lot of data behind that. So if you just smoke hemp, you won't trip major ball sack, but you'll feel you'll feel a lot of data behind that. So if you just smoke hemp, uh, you won't trip major ball sack, but you'll feel, you'll feel a lot better, though it's like every time I I smoke hemp, I feel like this when I smoke thc, I feel like yeah, it's a skyrocket I feel so fucked up it's.
Speaker 1:It's just the worst shit at which a lot of people enjoy that. Um, I particularly don't. I've had a lot of bad trips and it's just same.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's not a fun timeC, I've learned, the hard way is not for me.
Speaker 1:Yeah, the very hard way. I'll give you some smoke up a zone. It'll be great.
Speaker 2:Well, I'd just like to say that, since Pat and I have known each other for how many years?
Speaker 1:Almost 20.
Speaker 2:Almost 20 years. We're both somehow ended up same town, same office space, same mentality, yeah, uh, wellness practitioners of some sort. Yeah, right, it's, it's very interesting. Yeah, 20 years, and we, we've kind of weeded out all the, all the people yeah, isn't it?
Speaker 1:and the crowds. It's always weird to see, like over the years, how things kind of like. You start with we'll say a crew, even if it's like five people or 20.
Speaker 2:And then over the years people just fade away, whether they're fading or you're making the active choice to kick them out. But we've had our ebbs and flows, of course.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I've gone on crazy hiatuses just by mentally and physically physically so I don't know why anyone would be my friend. But but the people that I know around.
Speaker 2:Thank you, I guess I know why they're your friend, why you're a great guy.
Speaker 1:Oh, appreciate that even though you're shittiest you're still pretty decent, you're better than most, even on their worst day that's appreciated even at your shittiest yeah. Thank you. I don't know if I can do that. Someone's going to clip me doing that and be like yeah, you'll be like yeah.
Speaker 2:You're preaching masculinity.
Speaker 1:Yeah, all right, let's um. Oh, oh damn, rudy's in. I want to see.
Speaker 2:All right.
Speaker 1:If you want to check the comp, yeah.
Speaker 2:Oh, someone said are y'all dating?
Speaker 1:No, nope, we both have significant others.
Speaker 2:We're both very much in love with other people. Yeah, come on.
Speaker 1:Come on, but I appreciate the question, though, like you're engaged, you're asking.
Speaker 2:That's great.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it's nice. I don't thinking that I'm flattered. Guys, that's hilarious. All right, I don't know what I'm doing. All right, I know we got questions.
Speaker 2:I got a couple questions, comments to address so basically, you put out on your story, we're doing a live podcast, we want you to send in questions and just because we are in like the wellness field doesn't mean that everything we talk about is going to be wellness related because, honestly, it's probably not going to be wellness related at all. I don't even listen to podcasts that are only like one topic, because it's too boring yeah, so I want to hear these questions that you got okay, because I got questions too.
Speaker 2:I got a lot sent to me today.
Speaker 1:Oh, oh, perfect, so like on the side.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I got special ones sent on the side.
Speaker 1:All right, perfect All right, I'm going to pull up mine. I'm going to also pull up some other things that I needed to address.
Speaker 2:Some comments.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I needed to address.
Speaker 2:Where do you receive these comments?
Speaker 1:They started on TikTok recently too, but mainly IG. I do a lot of. I do a lot of marketing and giveaways on Instagram, so um so that's where you receive your your love and your hate.
Speaker 1:Yeah. Yeah, it's pretty, I want to hear it. It sucks. I'm just going to dive back into Facebook quick. Okay, someone actually asked the question. Hey guys, how are you doing? Hey guys? Question for you. Facebook, quick. Okay, someone actually asked a question. Hey guys, how are you doing? Hey guys? Question for you. I'm a pro wrestler, I'm doing a show soon and I'm raffling off my gear to donate to a family. Do you have a shirt I can wear for the show? Jonathan, absolutely. If you already sent a message, I will respond to you or I'll have someone from my team respond to you and we will get you some gear. I appreciate you giving back, man. That's what we're about. So all love to you, keep going. And if you can't respond, what's your pro wrestler name? I'm very curious about that big dog. Hopefully it has something with a wolf in it.
Speaker 2:I love a stage name.
Speaker 1:Yeah, hopefully it has something with a wolf in it. I love a stage name. Yeah, hopefully it has something with a wolf in it. That'd be ideal. What are you guys company about? It's a lifestyle brand. It's an apparel brand. We have a bunch of different wolves. Each wolf represents a different social cause. The one I'm wearing right now is the blue wolf. It's called the bravery wolf. This donates to suicide prevention, and I have 11 different ones and they all donate to a different cause. Yeah, I got a comment. It was like are you guys a woke company? I'm like why? Because we fucking donate back that we're woke.
Speaker 2:If that's what woke is, then I'm wide awake bitch.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but we have supplements. Smokables coffee the coffees go wide awake bitch. Yeah, but we have supplements. Smokables, coffee the coffee's gourmet, the smokables are nice and healthy. I have a side business, that's tea. So basically, if you do anything in life that's of value and you exercise and you take care of yourself, we have everything for you, literally.
Speaker 2:I'm not a wolf, but I am a big supporter. Just a special guest today.
Speaker 1:No no.
Speaker 2:I'm a wolverine, I'm no you I'm not.
Speaker 1:I'm a wolverine. I'm a wolverine, I'm a wolf tress.
Speaker 2:Wait, do you get into marvel or no? No, I'm not into marvel, so sorry, sorry to disappoint.
Speaker 1:It's all right, all right. So so firstly, um, when you anyone that's an entrepreneur, you have to understand that no matter what you're doing, to any capacity, people are gonna hate and talk shit. Um, which is kind of weird that it's coming mostly from men. That's not weird to me. Yeah, like, most of the hate that I get is like men that are scrolling the feed and they're just kind of I don't know if it's like a reflection of their own inadequacies, but the comments I get are I gotta. I gotta read some of these comments I've gotten throughout the week.
Speaker 2:Um, let's see these are mostly on tiktok no, this is all on on instagram oh, wow but you know what?
Speaker 1:I gotta read it. I gotta read it in their voice, though, okay yeah hold on, yeah, hold on that's better.
Speaker 2:All right that looks just like that guy.
Speaker 1:So these are the comments I got this week. All right, we got Fuck. I can't even see the comments. I can't see anything.
Speaker 2:I can't see your eyes.
Speaker 1:How can you call yourself wolves that give back, when this design was definitely created by artificial intelligence? Oh, pay a local artist. Okay, that I could kind of respect, you know, to a degree.
Speaker 2:Honestly, that's a compliment. Yeah, I mean the fact that they think that you are a robot and you could do all these things with the AI.
Speaker 1:I mean, but like, artificial intelligence has like streamlined so many things in general, so like, even if we use it to alter some images and make them better, I can't take you seriously. Anyways, the next comment I got was nice, try, diddy. What Exactly I got, diddy? I got this. This company is clearly sexist. Why Doesn't donate to any male rights organizations?
Speaker 2:Is that true? Are there? This might sound. Take that off.
Speaker 1:There are no male rights organizations. That's what I was just going to say.
Speaker 2:Are there? Do those exist? No, they don't exist. Men have all the rights. What do you mean? What the fuck do you mean?
Speaker 1:Anyways, yeah, so yeah, those were. I mean there's more, but you know I was getting hot as fuck in that man. But I just wanted to kind of address all of these and the most clear cut way I possibly could. And, um, I'm just going to say one thing about it.
Speaker 2:I know what to say.
Speaker 1:We're here yup, for everyone that commented this week wait, that's good yeah.
Speaker 2:Halloween's coming up yeah, what?
Speaker 1:I'm gonna be a fucking middle finger for Halloween. Nah, I went to the. Thank you, tina, she made a great point what'd she say?
Speaker 2:Yeah, well, I'm going to be a fucking middle finger for Halloween. Nah, I went to the. Thank you, Tina. She made a great point.
Speaker 1:What'd she say?
Speaker 2:Not to mention most of who you donate to isn't even gender-specific. It's like cause-specific.
Speaker 1:Appreciate you, tina. Thank you so much, tina. Yeah, tina, you're on point. Anyone that's saying that we don't donate to male rights, I mean we donate to suicide prevention, mental health awareness, wounded veterans. I mean the majority of people that fight for this country are all men. I'm not saying that there aren't women, but the vast majority are men. I could go on and on and on and on. So, yeah, these people, they do get a comment back from me that it's kind of degrading. I give them a coupon code that kind of calls them out and it gives them a free testosterone booster because they definitely need it, and then, within uh, two hours, I delete the entire uh thing and I block them because, yeah, we don't have time to go back and forth to people and it is what it is.
Speaker 2:So honestly, I think any attention is good. Attention, yeah, in this, in your field, here in media yeah, any attention's good yeah, well, this might be the weirdest thing I've ever done.
Speaker 1:I feel alive.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I'm like talking on the camera we that's only because we're millennials, and this is totally normal for true everyone else, true. Why are you gonna sit here and make me feel stupid because I won't dance on tiktok?
Speaker 1:yeah I'm not doing it well, that's like a whole other topic, uh, between like education and entertaining and and kind of like what you're giving up to make it. You know, like when I go to sleep at night, I I want to know that the money that is in my account actually came from me bringing value to the world, and not from me just twerking. I mean, you can be funny and shit like that, of course too, like I just I just put on a fucking middle finger mask, so but you know, it has context and it's going towards something and you know or I could just be justifying bullshit who the hell, who the hell knows?
Speaker 1:you know, but I think you're onto something yeah, let's um get into questions yeah, let me see here's some questions that you got.
Speaker 2:Because I want to, I'll ask mine appreciate you, jonathan.
Speaker 1:Oh yeah, timber wolf jackson hawk. All right, man, I'm gonna check your stuff out. Um, after we get off to live, all right, let's get into some, all right. So so I put a live feed for questions that came through. Let's see what we got.
Speaker 2:That's a long one.
Speaker 1:Damn.
Speaker 2:Let me see it.
Speaker 1:All right.
Speaker 2:Is that plugged in?
Speaker 1:Yeah, all right. So this question says how have you learned to be patient with people or family members who struggle from ignorance and who are not in the same mindset as you, meeting people where they are at, with kindness, showing empathy with, without ego taking over? That's a an amazing question and, just coincidentally, we were talking about that recently where it's it's so hard to connect with people. I mean, I I'm I go to family events and I do my best to like connect with people and and kind of dive in, but I'm so engrossed in everything else that I'm doing and I just feel like it's hard to relate and to connect with people. I mean, we just yeah, we just talked about this too on our podcast, which is so interesting, because I kind of asked you if, like, where you're at in life with like your wellness brand and your mindset, if it kind of like separates you from the people around you and is it like hard to relate and yeah, I think there's like a narrow mindset that we're, that's born into us.
Speaker 2:You know, we were born and they're like this is what you gotta do nine to five work your job, marry the person, have the kid, keep it simple and like when you start thinking outside the box, you do separate yourself from others. This person's question is like ignorant people and when they're in your family, you know like. I think it's just being self-aware.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you know, and and also like you have to understand too that, like, whether someone is in your family or they're your friend, if you have any form of self-awareness, you're gonna feel ostracized and you're gonna feel misunderstood. But the truth of the matter is is that you're the person that has it together and when you try and imbue like your own thoughts that to the right person are gonna like wake them up and and it'll probably change their lives. But when people just are full of ignorance and their head is in the sand and they're so stuck in their ways, you just kind of got to. I don't even know. I don't know if you can meet people where they're at, because I think if you were here and someone is here, are you going to be greeting yourself?
Speaker 1:Only two things can happen, you have to come down to help them up or they just kind of gotta like have to propel themselves up and it's almost an impossible task. Like to walk around, think that we're some like tibetan monk on a mountain and we can just like de-stress ourselves when people are basically like spitting in our face with their, with their lifestyles that they're like putting in front of us. You know.
Speaker 2:So I, I don't playing devil's advocate though, like as far as this person's asking, like how do you deal with family?
Speaker 2:that's ignorant or, you know, got their head stuck in the sand, but like I guess that's all relative to what your life is yeah and it's a matter of whether or not you guys match up Like this is, like you know, a pretty grand example, but it's like not even actually being like just sexuality. You know you've got a gay family member, you're straight, and they don't see eye to eye on that. Like, does that mean? Does that mean you can't associate?
Speaker 1:or can you find a middle ground? Do you have to be?
Speaker 2:at family functions together you know what I mean Without ego getting in the way. You know, then you're an asshole to each other and it's like, at what point do we draw the line? Yeah, it's true.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I think that it's all subjective. Yeah, I think that the more awake you are, the more you're willing to meet people halfway.
Speaker 2:Because you're the bigger you always want to be the bigger person.
Speaker 1:But the majority of people, even if they say they're going to meet you halfway, they're probably not going to. So I think you just kind of address it with finesse In certain situations, and if you have to cut people out, just fucking cut them out. It's so much more peaceful that way.
Speaker 2:The majority of the time, though, as long as it's not draining me, I'm willing I don't know what that says. I'm willing I don't know what that says I'm willing to just shut up and keep the peace. I don't give a what you're doing. I don't care what you're doing, as long as you're not committing crimes. I don't care what you're doing in your bedroom in your pants, like I'm not. So what?
Speaker 1:if someone calls you, though right, like it's someone that's per se close to you, and they call you and it's just the same problems, the the same bullshit, do you address it with kind of empathy or kind of try to get them to self-reflect and be like I can't Like you told me.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you come to me with this next year. I don't want to hear it. Yeah. So like, yeah, there has to be. I've dealt with that personally and I've had people do that to me, like I've been in a situation that I didn't want to be in, keep bitching about it, keep complaining, not making any changes. They don't want to hear it anymore. You can see people grow tired of that. Does that mean you can't have a relationship with them? I think you just have to adjust your relationship to people you know. You have to adjust the amount of time you're willing to spend with draining your energy, just yeah, time adjustment like and and decide it mentally.
Speaker 1:I can only spend five minutes with this person and then do that, and then do that. Feel that way about yeah, and then do that, but you, but you have to stick to it, because any form of you like realizing that you can only take so much of someone, and if you go over that duration then that's completely on you boundaries with yourself, yeah, what is that question?
Speaker 1:this, this is a question. Talk about this. One says, talk about diddy. I mean it's so prevalent in the media right now. I mean someone that gut is like a major star in and, to be honest, I'm seeing I'm in the dark about most of what he's doing, yeah like.
Speaker 1:So basically he's I don't want to say like a mo, I mean he's just. He's really big in in the hip-hop scene and he has a lot of connects and he threw a lot of parties and they found out that, like at his parties, there was a lot of weird shit happening in rooms and they raided his house and they found a thousand bottles of lube and and all this I mean to have a thousand bottles of lubrication.
Speaker 1:From what I heard, he is only penetrating buttholes, I'm sure I mean, if you have a thousand bottles of lube, you're trying to fuck anything and everything, anything.
Speaker 1:The couch, the cushion, that has a crevice, looks like a hole, you're putting lube on it. So yeah, did he. So that's did he. Yeah, and lube on it. So yeah, did he. Yeah, did he, yeah, did he I. I hope he gets the help that he needs and I hope that the people who are victims of him also get the help that he needs, because I'm sure there's a lot of musical artists that they're in a room with him. And he pulled out one of those thousand bottles and he said if you want to get to the top, then you know I, I gotta use this whole bottle. So I've you know, and I'm making a joke about it, but we know that.
Speaker 2:No, I know, Sexual assault is not something to be laughed about.
Speaker 1:I'm saying that shit definitely happened. Probably some major stars too, Did you see the Nickelodeon thing, drake Bell. Even Orlando Bloom. Orlando Bloom, is that him?
Speaker 2:He's's the one from raven yeah, is it most of those kids from nickelodeon are all fucked up all came out later. Have you seen him? Have you seen amanda bines?
Speaker 1:oh my goodness have you seen her? She made my childhood so much better, like when her show would come on you'd be like oh yeah, and right in my day now she's so you could tell that, that that entire scene is just run by satanic people.
Speaker 2:Anyways, yeah, I'm gonna go down the fucking rabbit hole wait, I gotta just say this is what we say to that yeah, I mean hollywood.
Speaker 1:Hollywood is a is a sham. I know it's like I watch movies, like I get into it, but like if you watch these people during interviews, they're fucked up. They're all sellouts too, like burnout.
Speaker 1:They'll be asked a question and they'll just completely beat around the bush and because, like you, saw them in a shirtless scene, you'll completely avoid the fact that they were just asked a serious question and they had no valid input about it. It's cowardice anyways. Next question um, if you had to choose one song to describe your business journey, what would it be? And why? Did something come in your head? Or you just like?
Speaker 1:something came in my head okay, you're gonna look it up quick I just gotta make sure that I have the band right band what I don't know. I thought it'd be a ditty song for you.
Speaker 2:I don't know oh, come on, we're the party, yet um bon jovi living on a prayer. Oh, we're halfway there.
Speaker 1:Do you feel like you're halfway there, like you're almost to where you want to be? That song would describe the journey.
Speaker 2:That was like throughout the journey.
Speaker 1:But also Journey is a band too.
Speaker 2:And I think, one of their songs.
Speaker 1:Don't Stop Believin'. Yeah, or Separate Ways, you know, or something like that.
Speaker 2:Oh that too. Bon Jovi Journey, you guys? Yeah, that's it Also. I saw who Neil Diamond was. Why are you putting my age out there? Sorry, it's okay. This man is in his 30s. He didn't know. He was born in the early 90s and didn't know who Neil Diamond is, and I had to sing Sweet Caroline for him to recognize.
Speaker 1:Oh yeah, once you said it, come on, let once you said it Come on. Let's see.
Speaker 2:Anyways, what's your song for your business journey?
Speaker 1:Probably Drake Major Distribution.
Speaker 2:Really, Because I was going to say more like Candy Shop 50 Cent.
Speaker 1:Oh, yeah, yeah. Well, I don't, I don't yo that that song was great back in the day though that was my fucking jam yeah. I feel like 50 Cent. You know he was. I love 50 Cent when you were growing up in the 90s like he was. Just he was goaded, honestly.
Speaker 2:I had a big crush on him.
Speaker 1:Fitness gamer.
Speaker 2:I thought, I said $1,000.
Speaker 1:If I said anything less than that, I genuinely apologize. But yeah, $1,000. $1,000. $1,000. If I said anything less than that, I genuinely apologize. But yeah, $1,000. $1,000. No, that's like damn. We have to look up the average price of baby oil.
Speaker 2:Was it baby oil? He's out here giving infections out.
Speaker 1:Yeah, no, no, it was baby oil and lube. $1,000 of each maybe. Oh my God, can you go to the next question. I maybe. Oh my god, can you go to the next question? I'm slipping and sliding down this slippery slope, all right. Um, so someone has music during sex.
Speaker 2:Question mark specific playlist clash vibe, slash vibe or just whatever's on I've had mixed experiences with that okay one time, it's one time yeah, that's not, yeah, it's one time I've been camp I feel like if you grew up in the 90s you'll understand that better yeah, um, one time I think it was like dave matthews band that came on and like it ruined the whole moment. Interesting, the person was like yeah, I can't focus. It was no, it was john mayer. It was john mayer.
Speaker 1:He was like I can't focus I feel like music during sex is the same thing as a woman wearing like edible underwear it's just a distraction. It's just kind of I've.
Speaker 1:I've never thought to myself, ever I could really use a jam right now, yeah, like I, I need to set the mood, which I I know in a lot of movies that gets kind of romanticized. But that's in a movie. The last thing a man is thinking about is actually putting on a song, and the only reason why he would think about putting on a song is if he thinks that you want the song on and it's going to propel his percentage of getting laid.
Speaker 2:He needs the distraction.
Speaker 1:Yeah, right, that's always that, so are you anti, anti-music no, I mean, I think when you think about sex in your mind and you just kind of like fascinated happening, there might be a song playing, but in the moment that's like that really is the last when the tv's on. Yeah, it's like the last thing.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I get distracted too easily okay I'll start singing it or I'll just start watching it, I'll laugh, okay, so yeah, that's Dead silence.
Speaker 1:No moaning either.
Speaker 2:No sounds.
Speaker 1:Okay, so I know this question was from my assistant, because it's not even a question. She just said, looking in the mirror, kiss my face, I'm too conceited. Shout out to you, mackenzie, I wish you were here tonight. I hope you feel better. I know you're feeling under the weather. Okay, let's see if we have any more. Oh, didn't you get some side questions too?
Speaker 2:I did.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Do you want to?
Speaker 1:Yeah, I want to hear those quick. And then I got a couple more.
Speaker 2:I got a lot of would you rathers from my friend Jake. Okay, a lot.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 2:But I got one question from my friend Chris.
Speaker 1:Okay, what was that?
Speaker 2:He said in the dating world, what are some of the things that are on your and I quote ick list, the ick list, the ick list like a red flag, or it's just anything that you consider, it goes beyond a red flag where you're just like okay you're just like totally icked, cringed by this person like you can't even ick, basically, is the word. That is the word we use to describe someone that we would not engage with so you're on a date and someone does something, and it and you're like no ick radar goes off there's like a stigma around the ick.
Speaker 2:I think it's okay to like, it's okay to have icks yeah and stay with someone you can be like that was really not cool, that was really cringy the way you just slipped on the ice there.
Speaker 2:But you don't break up with them over it, but in the you're but you're like say you're on a date and the guy's like talking a whole bunch about himself and he's just like yeah, like you know, like I'm a success story, you know, broke my ankle still became a pro athlete, like you know. I'm just different. I'm like ew, is it? Check, that's an. That's literally happened to me. Wow and for and for the record semi-pro.
Speaker 1:For the record yeah, no, I looked you up after.
Speaker 2:But yeah, so what are the? He said what are your icks in dating? Obviously, we're both in relationships, but we've dated enough to get where we're at with our partners.
Speaker 1:To be honest, I just think I've just been on this like manifesting, like snowball, where I just where. I've never been on a date where I just didn't like the person.
Speaker 2:Because you're not willing to even give someone your time if the vibe's not already there beforehand.
Speaker 1:Pretty much, well, let me tell you no, I was being facetious.
Speaker 2:I've definitely been on dates where Pat, let's get snowballing to something else, because I know that we're both going to be on the same page about this ick that I have. We already have. This is one of the things on our list that we needed to talk about, not the Hak Tua, the drinking, the drinking etiquette.
Speaker 1:Oh, so like if you're out with someone and they're getting fucked up and he's like six drinks in and I'm on my second. I'm like, okay, never gonna see me again. Have you ever watched hot ones?
Speaker 2:where?
Speaker 1:oh, yes, yes, yes so his whole vibe is if the guest is drinking milk, I'm drinking milk he does what he matches what they do just, and it just makes for a more comfortable setting for them. See, but if they start so when it comes to alcohol, though, oh, true, true.
Speaker 1:I I mean as a man, let's be honest. If you're out on a date and you're two drinks in and the girl's on six and and she's having the time of her life, you're like, okay, this is cool, but the vice versa effect of that is gonna look super sloppy too. But then, like you don't want a girl, like, hey, getting sick, blacking out, yeah, blacking out. And then in the morning she's like what the fuck happened. You know, yeah, if it, if it gets to that, yeah, I mean six drinks in general, but you know, if it's like one to three and someone's still, you know, like not blacked out, that's fine, you know.
Speaker 2:You know your limits better. So like you're talking about a guy just sloshing them back hammering them and you're just like all right, and he's visibly either. The one red flag is that he's fine, okay. One red flag is he's six drinks in and he's fine, or he's hammered and you're just like this isn't a date anymore.
Speaker 1:But what if it was a good in between?
Speaker 2:As long as I'm at a good in between too.
Speaker 1:Okay, so okay, because I a good in between, as long as I'm at a good in between two okay.
Speaker 2:So okay one, like because I've been on dates where that has happened what if he's been drinking?
Speaker 1:since before the date no, I mean like what if he has a faster metabolism than you and he handles alcohol better, you know? So it's like his six drinks could equal your one. We're just not a match.
Speaker 2:What you're talking about, though, like lifestyle, yeah, yeah, but that's another thing if a guy's and no offense to anyone in this room that can have six drinks and be fine, but I don't know, is that you?
Speaker 1:is that you?
Speaker 2:I don't know if that's me if a guy can easily go out and have I don't want to say drinks, I want to say, like cocktails, not beers, because I know guys can handle a lot of beer yeah, makes it, makes you full though. If a guy can have six to seven cocktails and like, be fine, I'm like you, do this a lot. What do we get?
Speaker 1:a comment Man's house was a slip and slide. They will not leave Diddy alone. Yeah, I mean, how could you right?
Speaker 2:Yeah, if a guy is six to seven drinks in and he's fine. I'm thinking that we have different lifestyles.
Speaker 1:Well, yeah, because he, he had to get to that point.
Speaker 2:You know that takes practice yeah and being in the wellness world. Yeah, I don't typically drink at all. When I do, it's very and it's like organic tequila. Or some organic red wine or whatever.
Speaker 1:I'm not shitting on anyone who's not drinking organic alcohol, but I'm just saying, if I'm on a date with a guy and he's seven drinks in and you're on one and I'm on one.
Speaker 2:there's a problem. So an ick for me to answer Chris's question. Damn yeah and ick for me is when someone thinks it's a talent to drink someone under the table.
Speaker 1:Look at this comment, man. I got the best followers.
Speaker 2:It's gross too. Being a functional alcoholic isn't a flex. Who is that? Who is that?
Speaker 1:Tina Vasquez. Tina, appreciate you, tina.
Speaker 2:Yeah, Functional alcoholism is not cute. That's ick number one. Ick number two. This is shallow. I don't care If you don't know how to fucking dress, you're going to show up. I went on a date once. What if?
Speaker 1:he's wearing gray sweatpants and a white tee, but he's packing though. No, okay, good for you Good gray sweatpants and a white tee, but he's packing though.
Speaker 2:No, Okay, good for you. I shouldn't know anything about his dick before the date and I don't want to see the outline of it. Okay, sweatpants do not belong in a restaurant.
Speaker 1:Well, what kind of restaurant are we talking? Well, I guess the first date probably shouldn't be it. Okay, that's another question, though. Do you feel like, if a man takes you to a really nice place the first time that you guys go on a date, that it kind of sets an expectation that's kind of high If he's like hey, we're going to Gracie's in Providence.
Speaker 2:Okay, I know the restaurant, but if I don't, I'm Googling it and then I'm like, okay, this is a four-star. They got a fancy chef there, well-known. They got a special menu menu. I'm not wearing jeans.
Speaker 1:Men, read the room even if it's like a nice read the room.
Speaker 2:I like that even if it's a nice cocktail bar, it's okay. If you want to wear jeans, I don't care. But I don't want a graphic t-shirt that says aero down the side. Aero pastel from 2001, shrunken in the dryer. Your mom didn't fold it after you got out of the door.
Speaker 1:No, you can pull closer.
Speaker 2:The state that I went on. We went to a fancy restaurant and he was wearing he was a state trooper. I wasn't in Rhode Island, so get your heads out of the gutter. I was not in Rhode Island. He was a state trooper for the state he lived in and he his jeans were under his shoe in the back, dragging on the floor all ripped backwards hat. This is this man is representing our law enforcement, not in rhode island. Backwards hat graphic t-shirt that's hilarious, holy shit jeans under his shoes.
Speaker 2:They were so long I just that that's.
Speaker 1:I mean like that was like one of those kids like in high school that ended up punching people. You know, it's like they would drink monster energy drinks and you just get assaulted. Yeah, they would wear wife beaters and baggy jeans and.
Speaker 2:And I, literally I was all dressed up like to the nines and he was like oh, looks like we're a little like dressed differently.
Speaker 1:Oh, I love it. She said you agree to that date, ma'am Accountability.
Speaker 2:But, like what's, I didn't know what he looked like before. I didn't know how he dressed.
Speaker 1:Oh, okay, so. I saw State Trooper and he was older, oh, so, like he was in uniform and you were like, oh, like he dressed to the nines, he had like nice pictures on his Instagram and then he showed up like a scrub, yeah that's tough.
Speaker 2:And he was rude and pushy.
Speaker 1:Yeah, that's ridiculous.
Speaker 2:The outfit and the personality matched Shitty Shitty.
Speaker 1:Oh boy All right.
Speaker 2:So that's two of my ex clothes and functioning alcoholism. Not clothes, fashion, sense of fashion.
Speaker 1:People on Facebook. Can you still hear us okay?
Speaker 2:I'm very curious Did you hear something like cut out? I don't know, was it the fan that was that?
Speaker 1:Oh yeah, it got too cool in here, but really it's still really warm in here, but really, but yeah, anyone on facebook that's still alive, if you could tell us if you could hear us or not, I'm gonna send you some free gear first, yeah, first, yeah, first one to to say I can still hear you is getting some free gear. I can still hear you is getting some free gear.
Speaker 2:I can still hear you.
Speaker 1:Tina says she's reckless as hell, Yo Tina's.
Speaker 2:Tina's a real one.
Speaker 1:Yeah, we might have to get you on a live, Tina.
Speaker 2:Listen, we gotta have standards out here. Yeah, we do.
Speaker 1:It's true.
Speaker 2:And again, I know that that's maybe a little shallow, because at the end of the day, I want to the man that I'm, that I'm with. I do have a man I can. I'm okay with being in pajamas at home, but I don't want to meet you for the first time in your pajamas. Yeah, you're in that?
Speaker 1:yeah, for sure I think it's. It says something about a man that nice, yeah, first impressions are are, are Yo, what up, mackenzie? You joined late. Yeah, you're probably sick, huh? Hi, mackenzie, everyone in the chat. If you could comment? Hi, Mackenzie, you know I can't read it and to help you feel better, mackenzie thank you, tina, not.
Speaker 2:Shall I have a preference?
Speaker 1:yeah, no, tina's the goat I love tina yeah, no, tina, we gotta get you on a live for sure. Um yeah, tina's the goat mackenzie, what do you have? What's going on over there. You know, she just, she just got the oh my God, what'd she call it? The frat flu or something like that, I forget what she called it.
Speaker 2:Oh, that's right, she's in school.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it just goes around. It'd be going around, you know it goes around. All right, we're going to Frat flu, the frat flu.
Speaker 2:I, I see some, some local names here, oh cool, alright, did you have any other questions? Because I have those, would you rathers, which are which are vile.
Speaker 1:Do you have an ick?
Speaker 2:You didn't answer. Do you have an ick?
Speaker 1:Oh, do I have an ick? To be honest with you, I don't think I've ever kind of noticed one.
Speaker 2:Men are so simple, it's not even funny. Yeah, men are so simple.
Speaker 1:Well, I think that's the thing too. If you meet a girl on the street and you ask her what kind of man you want, she'll be like 6'1", make six figures, and yada, yada, yada. And if you ask a man, he'll be like I don't know someone that'll just hold me down. And then it'd be like did you care if they were like a Burger King? And you're like no, not really, you know. So yeah, men are just a bit simpler, you know, I don't know.
Speaker 2:I think there's a community of men that would say just a good, loyal woman, and there's another community of men that would say she needs to be hot and have her shit together.
Speaker 1:Well, yeah, I mean mean, but I think tina has a question. Oh yes, please, tina shoot.
Speaker 2:Ask away please. She asked it. In the comments says how did the how life get started, whose idea and all of that and why? Why did you pick the organizations you did to support?
Speaker 1:tina, that's an amazing question. I actually uh to be. I guess it's all about truth, right? I was actually in chiropractic school at the time when I thought of the brand. I was listening to some financial freedom podcast and he was talking about dividing your bank accounts into five different things and donating a certain amount of what you make to charities and stuff like that.
Speaker 1:And, coincidentally, when I was on this walk listen to this podcast, I was just in like an entrepreneurial uh mindset and someone walked by me wearing gymshark and I was like, oh, that's a pretty cool logo. And I was like, and I looked it up and I realized that gymshark was almost a billion dollar brand. Maybe they are now. And then I've always loved wolves, so again, people are going to be like you fucking copied Gymshark. So I ended up making a logo that was kind of geometrically similar and I just kind of went down the rabbit hole of you know, making this company and building this brand, and every time I think about getting rich, I always think about who can I give back to? And it was just like a flash in my mind of all these different people. And then I was like you know what, why don't I incorporate that into my brand.
Speaker 1:And then I went home that night I made the wolf, which is the main logo, and I made all these different variations of it. I made like 25 different variations initially and eventually I was like like I had one that was like donating to, like space travel. I just was on, I was on a fucking tear. And then I actually cut it back down to 11, which I thought were the most prominent in this day and age. So it started as an apparel brand that was like derived off of giving back and and, to be blunt, the first like year or two, I ate shit. Like my design sucked. I mean, I had no idea what I was doing, but I was passionate about it. I played the long game for a couple years and I made some money off that. I invested in a supplement and then I expanded into, uh, smokables, and then now we do the coffee and the tea and everything. So, yeah, it just kind of started on a walk one day, which I know isn't that riveting, but you know it's still.
Speaker 2:Business stories aren't always the most. I feel like we think they need to be as exciting. Yeah, no it's like no, I had an idea and I executed it and it's working. The end with some nuance, what is that? Oh, oh, that's the question good for you, tina.
Speaker 1:Good for you, yeah, I think anything that is like advocate yeah it's like for those who can't yeah, it's right off other people and I mean shit. I get comments all the time about like the most ridiculous shit. But I think if you know that in your heart that you're doing the right thing, that's all that really matters, you know, I mean I donate money to, like the smokables donate to, um people that have, uh, wrongful drug convictions, like there are fucking people still in jail that got caught with a bag of marijuana.
Speaker 2:That is so crazy to me.
Speaker 1:And it's like you like hear something like this and you're like, okay, let me just try it. And I guess, to finish off your question, the ones that I donate to specifically, I did a lot of research, a lot of, like the bigger companies, like a lot of things come out eventually that they're not as noble and forthcoming with their money as they are. So I chose, kind of, I would say, some like in-between companies that I mean foundations and charities that are a bit established but they're not too mainstream, where I think it becomes more about money.
Speaker 2:Or status.
Speaker 1:Yeah. So I chose ones and plus two. I reached out to a bunch of them and I was like I want you to be the exclusive um foundation that I donate to, and I could tell you I sent probably over 100 emails and maybe like 10 organizations got back to me and those are the ones that I was like I appreciate it. You know, yeah good, yeah, good for you. You know, I mean eventually it'll build into something. I will say, the first like year I was doing this, I was like maybe the first year and a half I was in the, I was in the same boat. So it's all good, it's all love. You just do the best you can and and you just go from there tina with the fire questions yeah, tina you had another question up.
Speaker 1:I saw yes, I got you we're gonna get to those. They're watching I feel like, okay, damn, this one is um, this one's gonna be deep. You ready for this?
Speaker 2:I'm ready all right.
Speaker 1:Next question I appreciate everyone in the comments. Thank you so much like for tuning in and asking and um. We'll get back to them probably in a little while, but we had um some questions that were submitted in um anonymously. Some people put their names but I'm not going to put them on blast um. But this question is why does my boyfriend prioritize sports and video games over quality quality time with me?
Speaker 2:okay, there's a.
Speaker 1:There's a lot to this do you want to give the female perspective?
Speaker 2:yes, first, and then you can give the male perspective.
Speaker 1:Yeah, they might be similar I mean, I'll give the actual reason why that happens. Well, you know, you could, you could as well.
Speaker 2:Well, the AC just turned back on. Thank God it's hot in here. As a woman who does not engage in video games and I don't think I've ever dated a gamer, but I do know what it's like to be with someone who has hobbies that their need for them is just insatiable. Yeah, nothing can tear them away from that other than their penis. And in those relationships they were mainly based around sex and the other person's pleasure, which is video games and sex, and that's really it, nothing special for me. So I think when a guy is spending more time doing something with his hobby or passion because some people really do find a passion in video games it's straight up, comes down to priorities yeah it's priorities, if he wanted to he would, he would, that's true I that.
Speaker 2:I I know that that that like bumper sticker saying is so overused, but it's so fucking true yeah if he wanted to, he would. There's no reason why he can't balance his life, his video game playing time with friends and you not doesn't mean every week is going to be the same, but at least you know you are a priority in his life. Quality time with your partner is something you can't get back. If you wanted to, you would. Yeah, not to be harsh.
Speaker 1:Yeah, no, yeah, I think you're pretty spot on. I will say that from a male perspective. Well, let's get the exceptions out of the way, because the exceptions don't disprove the rules out of the way, because the exceptions don't disprove the rules. Uh, the exception would be someone that is bringing in a lot of money, either playing sports or or that like plays video games. Like if your boyfriend's actual job is playing video games and he's making a shit ton of money and he's supporting you, or he's a sports player and it's of that same thing, then let's get those people out of the way.
Speaker 1:Now let's get into the majority of the men in the world Losers, yeah, like who work a nine to five and who have fantasy teams or they play a lot of video games. You know, I can only speak from my perspective, which I've kind of been on all ends of the spectrum, and from someone who, two days before okay, is kind of odd, right, I don't even play fucking video games and I don't watch sports. Two days before we were gonna do this and I was gonna start releasing clips on tiktok, I had this weird craving to play video games and then I realized that the reason why I wanted to play these games is because it's a distraction, it's a safe place for me to be and it's kind of going to put me in a place where, like of comfort and I don't have to put myself out there.
Speaker 2:It's an alternate reality.
Speaker 1:And I feel like a lot of men do that know, like, like you work a nine-to-five, you probably hate your fucking job. Which shit I get it like. I've been there, you know. And then you come home from work and you don't really have the energy to kind of step outside yourself and build anything that's like tangible or has value that you could like put out there in the world, where you wouldn't have to suck your boss's ass for 10 hours a day, you know. So you just kind of dive into a video game. So I, I understand, but I I want you to also understand that that's just a straight up form of cowardice. Like you don't give a fuck about these video games. You don't give a fuck about these sports teams. These sports teams don't give a fuck about you.
Speaker 1:I always think about something called my rocking chair days, when I'm 90 and I'm in a rocking chair on my porch and I reflect back on my life. You really have to self-reflect on what you did and I guarantee you're going to be like, instead of playing all these games and giving a fuck about sports that I didn't give truly a shit about and if you do, then shit, I feel very sorry for you, um, and you should invest your time into uh building a future for your kids, for your bloodline, for your lineage, uh trying to do something that you're going to leave behind and not investing in things that really don't matter at the end of the day, if you have a woman in your life and you're prioritizing video games, you probably don't deserve to have a woman in your life.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:And I mean, if you're like for me, I'm probably not around as much because I work a lot, but I'm also providing. I try to pay for everything. Well, I mean for the majority. I do pay for everything, like I provide for my kids. I try and do the best I can I can. So me being away is more understandable than if I were to come home and just sit there and play fucking video games the whole time while my son's crying and I'm like, oh no, you got it. It's just, it's just ridiculous.
Speaker 2:don't settle for less yeah, if you wanted to, he would. And unless there's a conversation of like hey, I had a long day kind of tired, don't have a lot of energy right now to hang out and talk, I'm gonna go in my room for a half hour play video games. Yeah, the it's spoken about. It's not like you're, she's disappearing, like just communicate yeah, for sure just fucking communicate.
Speaker 2:There's no shame in doing something that you want to do, as long as you just share that with your person, instead of stonewalling yeah, video games severely.
Speaker 1:games severely alter your dopamine receptors too. So there are a lot of games out there that it's almost like gambling, where you get so invested in it and you get this high and then you like, die in the game or you lose or whatever, and then you want to get back.
Speaker 2:It just changes your standards of life altogether.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you can't do that. The moments in my life that I spent a lot of time gaming, got nothing done, and the moments that I were probably Depressed and didn't even know it. Yep, and I was only happy when I was playing the game. Yeah.
Speaker 2:I found an universe.
Speaker 1:I followed sports back in 2011 or 10 and the Celtics lost on Christmas, everyone, my Christmas and the Celtics lost my birthday in March and it ruined my birthday Because you let it. And since 12 years ago. I have not watched a single basketball game since then. And that's what people do A team loses, they start a fucking riot. They'll fight people for wearing a different jersey.
Speaker 2:Sports are supposed to bring people together. Yes, there's teams and there's sides and all that, but, like, at the end of the day, you're all there for the same thing it's to watch the game, it's to have a good time. Sick, I understand the community behind sporting events and stuff like that. I get it, it's fun. I've been to a Paw Sox game.
Speaker 1:That's like the only thing I've ever seen.
Speaker 2:It was so much fun. I got a hot dog. I was yelling, we heard Sweet Caroline.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you're able to Connect. I like to be able to watch something and tune into it and not really give a fuck about the outcome. Right, and if I'm going to watch a sport or if I'm going to endure something, it's going to be something that has intrinsic tangible value. And the two things that have intrinsic tangible value are fighting and dancing. No matter where you are in the world, if you hear a good beat, your body wants to move, and no matter where you are in the world, if you feel cornered, you're going to fight. So I'm a big advocate and fan of UFC and just fighting in general boxing.
Speaker 1:I think a lot of people should be more engaged with that. I think it can teach you a lot of life lessons. We live in a world where there's an underlying tone of violence and at any point in time, you may have to defend yourself with the people around you that you love, and in those moments, you're not going to wish you had a football or basketball. You're going to wish you know how to use your fists. So start learning some form of martial arts or boxing and stop watching sports.
Speaker 2:Can I add that to my ick list? Anyone who lets sports alter their life, meaning, their mood, their day. Oh yeah, If your team losing is going to fuck up your whole day and your mood.
Speaker 1:Ruin your birthday. Ruin your birthday. I was a waste bucket at that point in time.
Speaker 2:Holy shit, like dude you need to go home and journal.
Speaker 1:Whip your journal out and wait, oh yeah, no, I was like yeah, fuck Paul Pierce, he missed it, fuck the Celtics, he fucking missed that free throw.
Speaker 2:Yeah, Brian Fincher said just learn to prioritize your time and be respectful of the person that's in your life. If not controlled, it ruins people's lives just like gambling.
Speaker 1:And alcohol yeah, put a lid on it, and that's right, in line with sports video games porn oh boy Smoking weed Porn.
Speaker 2:Another ick for me is weed smoking. So sorry I can't. Yeah, don't watch porn.
Speaker 1:Don watch porn. And uh, we don't make you lazy, literally it's. I mean, if you think it doesn't, I mean weed makes you we're in 2024.
Speaker 2:Do we really need to address this?
Speaker 1:and if you're at a point in your life where you have to smoke to become creative, you should stop smoking and see what your mind does. Yeah, it's going to take a little while to readjust, because when you should stop smoking and see what your mind does, yeah, it's going to take a little while to readjust because when you smoke, it messes the receptor, mess with the receptors in your brain. It makes you hungry, it makes you sleepy. So if you smoke long enough, the only times you'll ever be hungry when you smoke and tired is when you smoke.
Speaker 1:You have to stop smoking. I promise you it's holding your life back. Get off the dope. If you're a high-functioning person and you work 16 hours a day and you have a bunch of money in your account and you made generational wealth and you—.
Speaker 2:And you want to toke a joint at the end of the night after dinner. I haven't got shit to say about what you're doing. I get it, but if you're— If you're horizontal for 16 hours a day and there's a cloud above your head. You need to get off your ass. You're horizontal. You're horizontal 16 hours a day. That's great. That was good. That's great, Do you?
Speaker 1:have another question on there. No, I think that's it for now. Let's go into yours.
Speaker 2:No, I have. Well, I guess they're questions.
Speaker 1:They're, would you rathers?
Speaker 2:Those are questions. Let's get into the. Would you rathers, should we? Uh, man, I really wish Jake was in here. I'm gonna let me text Jake and tell him to tap into the live so he can see me call him out.
Speaker 1:Yeah, do it. It's so weird when the air is off. I know it's almost like it's it's too quiet.
Speaker 2:I can hear my mouth Asmr channel. I gotta pull back a little. It's almost like it's too quiet I can hear my mouth.
Speaker 1:It's like an ASMR channel. I got to pull back a little.
Speaker 2:I'm telling him I'm going to read his.
Speaker 1:Well, for anyone that tuned in for the first time and engaged, I really appreciate it. I guess the goal for us too is just to kind of create an aura around the live and to create some clippable moments, because that's how you get yourself out there these days.
Speaker 2:So I mentioned that I was in the wellness industry, but I didn't tell anybody what I did oh yeah, please I own a wellness practice massage therapy, skin care and now now I'm joining in with pat on his on his wellness world. Talking nothing about wellness, maybe mental awareness, but yeah, massage therapy and skin care. And then I sing in a band on the weekends which we can talk about after.
Speaker 1:Oh, yeah, why don't you give like the socials for it, or something like that?
Speaker 2:My band's name is Dr Slick, that's D-R-S-L-I-C-K. Based out of Rhode Island, and my business name is Blue Moon Wellness, just the way it sounds.
Speaker 1:Blue Moon Wellness. Just the way it sounds, just the way it sounds and yeah, and don't call after business hours.
Speaker 2:And do not leave me sick voicemails asking about anything not massage related, and don't call me after nine actually don't call me after six, after five jesus yeah it's uh, brian fincher.
Speaker 1:Uh, what about vaping for your anxiety and depression? Oh, brian, to be blunt, I, I've, I've never uh vaped before I have yeah, I um, look, I get it like you need some form of ice. I will say that that's, that's probably better, um, than smoking or shit, even popping medication at that point, you know. So I'm not gonna say that that's the worst thing in the world. I will say that what kind of vape is it? You know, if it was made in a lab?
Speaker 1:in china and and it cost a dollar and it tastes like green apple.
Speaker 2:It's good for you.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I'd probably stop. You know, Brian, if you do smoke, hit my line after I'm going to. What's your view on smoking?
Speaker 2:That's Jake, my friend.
Speaker 1:Hi, jake, that's the guitarist of my band.
Speaker 1:Oh dope, all right. But for Brian, if you do smoke, I'm going to send you some smokables. I'm going to get you on something better, and the idea of my smokables is so people can get off of vaping cigarettes. Thc, get on something better. That's not going to trip you out, it's a lot more healthier for you, it's a lot more clean. You, it's a lot more clean and um, but the goal is to not be on them forever. You know like we have to learn to deal with our anxiety and our depression in better ways. So, yeah, next time I hey, brian, next time you're feeling anxiety, if you do 10 push-ups and send me a video, I'm gonna send you some free gear, because that's rather than anytime I get yeah anytime I get anxiety, um, I try and do something, uh physical, and it definitely helps.
Speaker 1:Uh, jacob, uh, what's your view on smoking cigarettes versus a vape? May I add this jake is a pack a dayer oh jake pack a day jake gonna get you some help, buddy jake, you need to get on the vape yeah, yeah, uh, yeah, no cigarettes in general.
Speaker 1:I mean I I get the aura you know, like back in the 70s, 80s it was cool, it was hot you know, like, uh, like leather jack, I'm not gonna uh sit here and act like I don't enjoy smoking on something, um, just in general, like whether it be a cigar or my own smokables. Smoking on something in general it's. I think for a man, it probably fucking boost your testosterone, who the hell knows. There's just something about it that makes you feel more of so. I can, I can understand, I can relate. You just really have to dial back on what you're putting into your, into your body if you're smoking actual cigarettes. You got a lot of self-reflection to do. Um, tobacco is addictive, yeah, so is everything but nicotine in general has a lot of neuroprotective benefits. Okay, um, I've heard people um treating um crohn's disease with nicotine and stuff like that. So, um, I will say that pack your own cigarettes, order your own organic tobacco, get out all that. Like.
Speaker 2:Cigarettes have fucking arsenic in it, fiberglass I could go on and on like jake, buy your own tobacco, start rolling yeah, buddy, I'm, I'm thinking about making yeah that inconvenience alone will probably be like oh I have to, that's so much work, I'm just gonna skip the cigarette and the next thing you know yeah a year in. You're like I don't really feel like doing all that.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it's true.
Speaker 2:And, as somebody who vaped, it was very hard to get off, but what I did was you can. At the time I was using those rigs that had the juice.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 2:Oh geez, I was. I started I don't even remember what the numbers were maybe like an 18 nicotine, which is like one of the highest you can get, and I got down to zero and then I was just smoking, just to do it. Watermelon juice.
Speaker 1:And I'm like what am?
Speaker 2:I doing so? I just once the nicotine cravings were over, I was just smoking because it was a muscle memory. Did Jake say something I can roll he?
Speaker 1:said I can roll. It's a very fair point. Yeah, man, I would definitely try and get on something. That of the day is your health and I know, when you're younger I mean, shit I'm, I'm in my 30s, like you uh, lightly said, but shit, I, I think I still feel like I have the mind of an 18 year old sometimes, you know. But I know there's gonna come a day where there's gonna be a form of self-reflection where I'm like, damn, I wish I didn't do that and if you have kids, or you like plan to have kids, or like you want to leave anything behind.
Speaker 2:You know like like, don't want to our parents with all those regrets.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you don't want to go out like that, so, um, I would advise you to get on something healthier. Um, another question my anxiety gets bad and a vape is where I've turned, but how would you recommend stopping?
Speaker 2:Like I said, weaning off nicotine levels so you can just stop the cravings.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you got to get it down, you know. Try and get on something healthier. Any form of physicality helps, you know, if you're. I've struggled with anxiety my entire life. I could go into stories about it, but I don't want to bore you guys with. But yeah, you guys have to prioritize your health. It's literally all you have.
Speaker 2:I'd like to mention my recent loss. My dad's cancer was from tobacco. He smoked blunts and he didn't even die of lung cancer, he died of a. And this is to scare you, Remember those commercials where they'd have the thing the voice box Stop. That wasn't even how he looked. That wasn't his situation. He died of a big fat tumor growing at the bottom of his esophagus so he couldn't eat food anymore. No more food. You want to fucking smoke tobacco. No more food for you.
Speaker 1:You could block up your esophagus but did he smoke cigarettes or just tobacco?
Speaker 2:okay, so he put cigarette tobacco in his blunts, as well as a tobacco leaf okay.
Speaker 1:When you say cigarette, tobacco, do you mean like he broke open a cigarette?
Speaker 2:He broke open a cigarette, put it in his blunt.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but like that's not actual tobacco in there.
Speaker 2:Oh, it's chemicals, it's bullshit. It was menthol too.
Speaker 1:Like if you guys order organic tobacco because you enjoy smoking on something, it's way different than smoking cigarettes.
Speaker 2:They're just made in a factory.
Speaker 1:Oh my God, there's so much. Everyone has access to Google. I know a lot of people want to avoid looking shit up, but if you go to Google and you just look at the breakdown of a cigarette, it's not even tobacco at that point. Embody exactly what you're putting into your lungs.
Speaker 2:You're going to second guess what the fuck you're doing. Another way, I want to read Jake's, would you?
Speaker 1:rathers after this.
Speaker 2:But another way of getting yourself to quit something is start a fitness journey and then you're like oh shit, I literally can't even walk for 10 minutes without gassing myself out. Then you're like that's your incentive. If you actually care about your fitness journey and you're overweight and you want to look good and feel good, you're going to stop everything that's going to get in your way of that goal.
Speaker 1:Yeah, most of you start a fitness goal or you alter your life when something bad happens, and I'm going to advise you to not take that route. Do that before. Do that before. You don't want to be in a hospital bed thinking I got to get it together, or if something happened to you and then you think I to get it together. You know, life is about preventing things and you can't prevent everything.
Speaker 2:I understand that preventative measures are the best thing we can do rather than trying to reverse the clock and the things that we did. At least you know, you tried, you know, so keep yeah just keep going, not not to totally change these, would you rathers are.
Speaker 1:Hey, connor, yeah, yeah, let's let go. Buddy, I want to see some designs and if you want some samples, I got you Is that. Facebook Yep, oh cool, appreciate you, big dog. All the love to Connor. I want to see those designs, buddy, this is. These are so good, yeah, yeah, yeah, oh, hold up. Before you go over those, let me um do an important segment. It's called um. Pause this while I make another drink this just in packing drink, six drinks and I can only have one.
Speaker 1:And he could be pat's showing his peacocking's peacocking right now. Yeah right.
Speaker 2:That's what they think. That's what they think when they're on a date. They're like watch this, I can't have six drinks in ten minutes?
Speaker 1:Yeah, no, that's weird.
Speaker 2:Jake, you missed it before you got on here, but I was telling him that one of my icks trashed either way. Six drinks on a first day is too much you know that's a lot that's a lot. That's a lot.
Speaker 1:Jake can drink like that and if you want to justify your boozing, you know, start a company, open up, get some organic tequila, six different brands and um, at at that point in time you can afford to afford to drink, and even then you still play shit the next day exactly all right, you're to make yourself a drink before I go over these.
Speaker 2:Is that what?
Speaker 1:you're doing? Oh no, I was only. Oh, max three drinks. Hey, I'm only at two, Jake, Max three drinks. So you know what? I got one more in me, jake explain yourself.
Speaker 2:last weekend then. Oh you mean on a date?
Speaker 1:all right, I never met jake, but I gotta meet. I gotta meet him.
Speaker 2:He's good he's real good. Is adam still in here? Because jake and adam they like they get along. Say hi to adam, jake. What are you doing? What's going on over there?
Speaker 1:say hi to adam, jake, pat, I'm like six shots, six, six shots and I'm six shots. I'd be in the hospital, I'd be getting my stomach pumped. Six shots and I'm good.
Speaker 2:Six shots, I'd be in the hospital. I'd be getting my stomach pumped. Intravenous Dates are different than what did he say?
Speaker 1:Dates are different than dates.
Speaker 2:Oh, jake, all right, we got some, would you rather?
Speaker 1:earlier. Oh, perfect, I love. Would you rathers?
Speaker 2:Are you ready? Did you want to write your answer on your board or do you want to just answer it? No, freestyle. Yeah, we'll just Freestyle.
Speaker 1:What I don't know. Do you want to try it? What is that? Put your drink from the other side, though.
Speaker 2:You got the frat flu? Yeah, I don't got the frat flu. Mezcal hits different.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but it's with the. It's Mezcal Jake.
Speaker 2:Oh my god, oh my god I could feel your soul like it was not bad yeah, it was vibrating like I just stood over a barbecue and yeah, I'm gonna, yeah, I'm gonna.
Speaker 1:Oh, what's up, rudy? Hey, rudy, I got I got yeah, I got another bottle of um of class a of zoolog. I don't know how you pronounce it but yeah, I'm gonna lose some. Yeah, I'm gonna get so many less sales after this holy shit organic agave.
Speaker 2:No, it's just. This is funny. First, would you rather yeah, let's do it I'm gonna, I'm gonna skip over the first one. Uh, would you second one?
Speaker 1:hold on. I I feel you had a question about chick-fil-a which I really wanted to answer. You said someone put in a question about chick-fil-a are you making that up? No, did I say that where they had a certain amount of chick-fil-a oh, I texted it to you.
Speaker 2:I texted it to you that was jake.
Speaker 1:All right, jake, I'm gonna have you back right now, buddy. Yeah, no, we're gonna figure this out for you. So if shirley can pull up this question, um, it's going to be very much appreciated because I want to, you know, give you the context that you need and deserve, buddy where is this question?
Speaker 2:I texted it to you, didn't I?
Speaker 1:yeah, just search chick-fil-a. It'll be the first question that comes up.
Speaker 2:Let you talk to everyone about chick-fil-a if three chick-fil-a sandwiches makes me wake up in the middle of the night, you please just finish.
Speaker 1:I can't I can't absolute mess if, if three chick-fil-a sandwiches wake me up in the middle of the night to explode out of my ass, what would happen if I ate six? You die x is for eyes. No, listen, jake, there's only two things that could happen. If you have three and your ass explodes, that would only mean if you ate another three, which would be six, it would completely Fall off, null and void the first three and you'd be straight. What?
Speaker 2:That's the first Cancellation Process of cancellation. That's the first option.
Speaker 1:The second option is, bro, you better write a eulogy because you know it's bro, you're going to be a goner. So yeah, like, just know that if you do that, it is a 50-50. You're either going to null and void out the first three and you'll be chilling, or, you know, it just might be.
Speaker 2:Well then, I guess this goes with the next, would you rather? That's what I think, yeah, I feel like three more, you'll be golden would you rather have diarrhea for the rest of your life or have a terrible urethral infection once per month? Well, I'm here to tell you I'd rather have diarrhea rest of your life or have a terrible urethral. Wait, is it diarrhea every day for the rest of your life? I mean, that wasn't specified, but I'm going to assume.
Speaker 1:Assume.
Speaker 2:Or a terrible urethral infection once per month. Can we get an answer in the comments on that?
Speaker 1:Yeah, what would you guys rather have?
Speaker 2:I think Diarrhea. I'm going with diarrhea.
Speaker 1:Oh man.
Speaker 2:Can I get to the next?
Speaker 1:question. I'm gonna, I'm gonna go with diarrhea too, okay, uh, yeah, I don't want to be burning or nothing like that.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's not a vibe would you rather listen to one album of your favorite artist for the rest of your life or have to listen to music that you think is just okay for the rest of your life? But you get to pick the artist. Oh, immediately, what comes to mind? No, no, hate I. I can't stand taylor. Swift's music like that would be torture for me. Like her music to me is just okay okay like I couldn't do that.
Speaker 2:I'd rather just listen to my favorite music, but I feel like you'd get burnt out on it yeah, but if it was good enough.
Speaker 1:Like I feel like classic rock is timeless, true, you know. So something like that where, like you have a bon jovi record, you know, I think I would prefer that over just some mediocre shit. Who's the guy that you went to see recently? Neil diamond? Yeah, I wouldn't want to, you know.
Speaker 2:Sweet Caroline, you wouldn't do it in your car. Bah bah bah no. No, all right. Ooh, this is a good one. Would you rather only be able to eat candy, but within your calorie deficit, or whatever you want? But you could only eat 1,250 calories for the entire day.
Speaker 1:Wow.
Speaker 2:Interesting, interesting. I'd be so hungry.
Speaker 1:1200 calories, candy within your calorie deficit or whatever you want, but 1250 calories for the entire day, oh god oh, like you're only eating candy but it's within your calories, but there's no so many other missing nutrients yeah, no, I'd rather eat meat for a significantly um amount of less calorie. Yeah, for sure, I couldn't eat candy all day.
Speaker 2:You have so many other problems oh my god, you feel like shit.
Speaker 1:uh, october is the valor, uh wolf actually. And yes, there is going to be another Luna drop. Absolutely, I've missed quite a couple, unfortunately, but yeah, it'll be the Red Wolf next month and I will do another Luna drop. I promise it's needed. Now that I'm looking at your phone case on camera, it's pretty funny I'm like where's the camera?
Speaker 2:it reminds me of powerpuff girls it does.
Speaker 1:I was gonna say that, like it almost looks like we're kind of being so you'd rather?
Speaker 2:you'd rather eat 1200 calories with beef normal food.
Speaker 1:Yeah, no, give me the beef for sure first.
Speaker 2:Yeah, absolutely would you rather be an ostrich or an emu? And why Aren't they the same thing? Yeah, what is that? An ostrich and an emu?
Speaker 1:In my mind it's the same thing, same.
Speaker 2:thing.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I think they're both really fucking ugly, so I'm going to choose like gun to my head. I'm just gonna say the first thing that I can say ostrich yeah, ostrich emo. What's easier to say?
Speaker 2:ostrich, you have big, you have big eggs. Oh yeah, this is a good one for a guy. Would you rather fight a gorilla once a year or have to get in your car every day and fight one chicken and get it out of your car? Every day one fight one chicken and get it out of your car. Every day one chicken, or once a year, full-blown fight, possibly lethal, lethal fight with a gorilla.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I'm going with the chicken Every day. Yeah, okay, every day, every single day.
Speaker 2:If I got into my car and had to choke a chicken out, that is just a meal that I'm going to have, that night Candy, you're going to eat the chicken that you killed.
Speaker 1:If I have to fight a chicken every single day. Yeah, I'm eating you tonight. This chicken came from Purdue Farms. They have antibiotic-free chicken.
Speaker 2:They're all living. They're walking on each other, all dead and rotting on the ground.
Speaker 1:But you know, fight a. I'm not going to come out of the first fight alive, so it's like the last one. Yeah, no, I take, yeah, I'm, yeah, I'm taking the chicken Bro For sure. Yeah, yeah, and then it's a free meal.
Speaker 2:A Purdue chicken full of hormones. Would you rather? These are out of this world cry me with it would you rather get possessed by a demon for a week or have to have horns on your head for the rest of your life? Oh, give me the demon honestly I feel like so I've never you ever done mushrooms I thought you were gonna say so I've.
Speaker 1:I've never been possessed before, but I've heard.
Speaker 2:Well, I've heard so personally. I've never been possessed before, but I've heard Well, I've heard so personally, I've never been possessed, but I have heard some good things. I was going to say I feel like that could be on the scope of a mushroom trip. No, have you done mushrooms? No, I haven't, neither have I.
Speaker 1:Anyone who's done mushrooms, can you tap in and tell us what it's like? I want to do an ayahuasca trip, though, but ayahuasca trip though, but like with like a medicine man in a different country, I wouldn't do it here. I wanted to do like a mushroom tea, like, like experience someone said uh, brian, you didn't specify what size of a chicken it has to be big cock, a big cock. Honestly, I I don't care if the chicken was the same size as the gorilla. I'm still. I'm still fighting the chicken.
Speaker 1:I'm still fighting the chicken.
Speaker 2:One hook with the talon, you're dead Pat.
Speaker 1:Chickens have talons.
Speaker 2:Big claws, Big nails yeah.
Speaker 1:I guess if it was a more life-size chicken, that makes sense.
Speaker 2:Pat, you know what I forgot about?
Speaker 1:What's up?
Speaker 2:Our whole list of topics that we had written down.
Speaker 1:Yeah, literally.
Speaker 2:Where of topics that we had written down?
Speaker 1:yeah, literally where is that?
Speaker 2:and our what in our shared note, our shared note.
Speaker 1:Where is that? I got it up right here. Okay, yeah, it says oh my god, oh my god um, anyone. So I know the first post that I put of this says weekly on thursdays. I will say that this upcoming thursday I will be in New Orleans. I am probably going to try and go live on like see my layover flights.
Speaker 2:Go live while you're there. Yeah, in the hotel room.
Speaker 1:Or I'll go. Well, I'm flying Thursday, so I can either go live.
Speaker 2:During the morning.
Speaker 1:Yeah, my layover. Or I'll just go live Friday night with my brother, who's a tanner more handsome version of me, so you guys will enjoy that. So, and then when I get back from or from new orleans on that thursday, shaylee should be back I'll be here.
Speaker 2:He'll be if they want. What did he say? Okay last time I took mushy.
Speaker 1:I can't read that from here last time I took mushy's, I stacked them, so basically just ate a little at a time, and it was so much fun, just silly. Everything was bright and fun, the stars were wild how many, how many?
Speaker 2:oh, is it milligrams, is it?
Speaker 1:like ounces.
Speaker 2:What do we? How do we measure a dose? I just they say micro dose.
Speaker 1:I heard that they grow out of cow shit and that kind of was just like that kind of deterred me. How like do they have protein? Are they good for you? I mean, I doubt they're good for you what's a spur?
Speaker 2:what's a spur?
Speaker 1:I think they're. I think Spurs is a sports team, maybe I don't know.
Speaker 2:Spur of the. Moment.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Pat.
Speaker 1:Yes.
Speaker 2:Maybe you should open your notes app.
Speaker 1:I got it up. Oh, you do.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I'm ready, but, jake, we're probably. I think I've lived these last 31 years not experiencing mushrooms and I think I'm okay going the next 31 years without doing it. Maybe We'll see if my experiencing mushrooms and I I think I'm okay going the next 31 years without doing it.
Speaker 1:Maybe we'll see if my mind changes yeah, I will say that when I am in my rocking chair days, which I addressed earlier, and I don't have, you're gonna regret not doing it no, no, no, I'm, I'm, I'm. I'm not gonna have a sober moment on my rocking chair days, oh you're gonna be fucked up the whole time. Oh my god, you'll be if my kids are grown, they're in different countries, like that's when you those are your drug times, absolutely.
Speaker 1:If I'm just sitting there on my porch and I'm in my 90s and nothing barely works besides my mind, yeah, I'm gonna take some shit, I'm gonna just that's actually a good point, because I always I honestly get FOMO about mushrooms because I'm like, I'm so scared, I'm gonna do them later in life, for sure, for sure.
Speaker 2:But I know that going into it with a bad mindset is one of the worst things that you can do.
Speaker 1:I've heard yeah, for sure If you're anxious, really scared.
Speaker 2:I've heard that that'll just ruin it, no matter what. Nothing you can do to fix that.
Speaker 1:Yeah, that's unfortunate. Of course I got them up. It's a long list.
Speaker 2:I don't know if we should jump right into that first one.
Speaker 1:All right, mind you guys, this is the first live we've ever done. This was mainly to increase business sales, but I can see after an hour and a half it's probably going to decrease business sales.
Speaker 2:No, it's not, You're showing your face.
Speaker 1:It's so funny.
Speaker 2:You need to put your personality on your platforms.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it's great, and the people that have like tuned in I really appreciate you guys.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, it's nice pat. Why don't you, why don't you discuss one of these topics?
Speaker 1:all right, let's let you. This is your platform.
Speaker 2:Yeah I'm gonna let you bring something to the table well, let's do.
Speaker 1:The most pertinent thing that I feel like is in the media these days. Um, I will say, you know, if you're involved in anything that's online, you have the possibility and probability of going viral, of your life changing overnight, whether it's you getting followers or whatever. And most recently, I feel like the most pertinent person in the media was the hawkua girl, and you know, I think that the reason why she went so viral is because so many men could kind of empathize and understand with what she was saying. Do you feel like women could understand and empathize with what she was saying?
Speaker 2:I had to do a little research on her because obviously I saw the video but I wanted to know how old this girl was. I wanted to know, like, how old is she? She's like 21, maybe, I don't even think she's 21.
Speaker 1:She was like 20.
Speaker 2:Okay, so like this is. This girl lived in the south somewhere. I don't even know where that originally was, but this is some like 20 year old southern chick's perspective and of course it was probably a joke, but she learned it somewhere. Oh yeah, and she learned it somewhere and you know it almost. It almost hurts us okay although I have spoken to men whose take on it was like what he's like. If a girl ever did that to me, I'd be like what the hell are you doing?
Speaker 1:hawk a loogie on me well, I don't think she was saying like literally hawk and a loogie, it was just more of like give him what he wants. Yeah, just make it not so dry. I don't know, maybe that's that's what she was saying, you know. But um, you know, I don't think it's I don't think. I think yeah I just't think I think, yeah, I just.
Speaker 2:Maybe girls do that in private and that's fine if your man likes that, but I don't want to set the standard for women.
Speaker 1:But if we're being honest, right, so let's go down to like a deeper level. Her overnight success Does everyone feel that it?
Speaker 2:was propelled by men or women. Come on.
Speaker 1:Men were sharing that. Come on, men were sharing that. Come on two and spit on that thing. Do you think that woman would be?
Speaker 2:it would create an uproar. For women to chime in and correct this behavior. Okay okay.
Speaker 1:So it's okay for a woman to hock two, but for a men to hock two is not see, this is where the whiteboards would come in if I could draw yeah, draw please can you draw I?
Speaker 2:could try can you draw us a vagina, a vaginal exam. Can you A diagram?
Speaker 1:Okay, so just give us a little, just so we can educate on the.
Speaker 2:I'm really not good at drawing Physioanatomy.
Speaker 1:I feel like it should be the long way though, right, sure Okay.
Speaker 2:You've seen a lot of long ones. Yeah, regarding the Huk Tua comment, I think that's perfectly fine for a man, but as a woman, oh wow.
Speaker 1:I went the long way and I'm drawing this little picture.
Speaker 2:Yo, you got a whole whiteboard. As a woman, our anatomy is different. I'm going to speak for myself and other women that I know. It's a very sensitive thing and the way we are built and our anatomy is wired. Our urethra is very close to our vaginal opening okay, this is his vagina so far.
Speaker 1:By the way, that's a good fucking fucked up eggplant. Give me that you're so close clitoris.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah, I didn't finish urethra is like right around here, okay. And then vagina, right there. These are the labias you spit in there. We went out to dinner.
Speaker 1:I don't know what all that is but you spit in there.
Speaker 2:We went out to dinner for a ribeye and some asparagus, and then we got dessert. You're spitting creme brulee, spit in there. We went out to dinner for a ribeye and some asparagus and then we got dessert. You're spitting creme brulee right in there. You're spitting the creme brulee and your and your titos and soda right in there. Okay, and guess what happens? You get a uti, a yeast infection. So, men, if you could just keep the spitting to a minimal, did you want to finish your artis?
Speaker 1:oh you know what? No, I'm gonna. Oh you know what? Yeah, I'm actually going to finish your artis. Oh you know what? No, I'm going to. Oh you know what? Yeah, I'm actually going to finish this. I'm going to finish this.
Speaker 2:That's a healthy labia bro.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:I don't know where that actual stuff was Are those legs.
Speaker 1:No wait, I've got to finish the drawing she's got legs, it's a penguin.
Speaker 2:No, anyways, if, if we could just keep the spitting to a minimal, unless you're going to brush your teeth and rinse your mouth out and all that. But yeah, as a woman, our anatomy is just not designed. Spit is full of bacteria, it's full of bacteria. So funny, that's plankton and the chum bucket. We turn into the chum bucket when you spit your creme brulee in it, interesting.
Speaker 1:So yeah, just putting it out there for all the women.
Speaker 2:Stop spitting on us, because it results in month-long infections that send us to the hospital and we get time out of work and it's just inconvenient. So if you could just go buy like a nice KY for her no essential oils, no scent, just water-based Organic. Organic, don't k?
Speaker 1:y for her, no essential oils, no scent, just water-based organic. Organic. Don't spit, keep spit to yourself. Thank you, wow, that was deep. So, basically, if you're, uh, a man could never go viral for saying something like that, and it would be viral in a very bad way yeah, because they'd be like you don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 2:It goes clitoris, urethra, vaginal opening, and it's a disaster in there with when it comes to saliva. So just clean it up, guys. What's the next note?
Speaker 1:next note, moving on wow, I almost just ended that on accident. It's. It's weird to be going back and forth between all these things, but it's still so great Looks like an almond. You guys are great. I did eat mushrooms.
Speaker 2:Yes, I would rather have diarrhea.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I think that you know, as a man, having any kind of, you know what Women don't educate.
Speaker 2:Women don't educate men either. I don't expect you guys to know everything. We don't expect men to know everything, but I let men do things way too long in the bedroom that I shouldn't have allowed that. Now I'm like very.
Speaker 1:Why would I do?
Speaker 2:that. Why would I do that? And now we're talking about that over dinner. I would. We're talking about that over dinner. I would.
Speaker 1:We're talking about that over dinner, I would.
Speaker 2:We're talking about that over dinner, over dinner. I just want to say, hey, if we leave this restaurant together, I just want you to know no spitting is permitted on my body. Damn no spitting is permitted.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I feel like things should be addressed more on the first date 100%, I feel like so many are are so timid to kind of show who they are or just kind of I don't know, be themselves. And then if a woman I mean women hold the keys to sexual access. So if a woman kind of gives you the opportunity to come home with her, you know let's do the right. Whoever you were dinner, let's hope it was a good guy.
Speaker 2:Remain that guy.
Speaker 1:You go back like that, you wake up like that. You know.
Speaker 2:That would be nice.
Speaker 1:But yeah, don't say at dinner that you don't spit, and then you do that again.
Speaker 2:Now, what about this next, what about that next one, after women's vaginal health?
Speaker 1:Yeah, because yeah.
Speaker 1:We got to bring the boys in too I think you already advocated for that you know, I think what you should do is you should start, you should become a woman's vaginal health activist and you should start uh protesting and you should go I'm gonna be a vagina for halloween I was gonna say healthy labia that was good. Yeah, no, I'll make the costume. I was gonna say you could go on the highway and stand in front of a bunch of cars and be like and just advocate for it, you know yeah, 100.
Speaker 2:I'll hold up pictures of vaginas rather than what these people are fucking climate change. Yeah, I'll hold up pictures of vaginas, so they know yeah, do you?
Speaker 1:um, I think I mean it kind of to that point. You know, uh, people who are like protesting, which like I'm all for, but if, if you're ever in front of my car on the way to somewhere that I need to be, and you're just inconveniencing like the average person, stopping all of traffic to prove a point, like take it somewhere where, like it's actually going to matter, like we, like we got to get to work.
Speaker 2:I'm not trying to read while I drive.
Speaker 1:That's how accidents happen.
Speaker 2:Right, that's why you just got to hold up pictures Like billboards. That next one there says micropenises. You know what? This is way deeper than you think. I'm going to go with it, but I think that seed oils and marijuana and if you don't use it, you lose it attitude is part of the reason why we have micropenises in today's society through a form of epigenetics or what you're born with exposure.
Speaker 2:Oh okay, so like what you're born with, kind of and not shrinks like a raisin eventually yeah, I think, exposure to the, your environments, what kind of life you live? Like I just don't think. Like I think I think there are men out there. Yes, genetically they are born with smaller anatomy, no shame. But I think what you put into your body can also make or break that. You know, if you're overweight, that automatically makes your penis look smaller, right?
Speaker 1:yeah, it looks smaller.
Speaker 2:I don't know if it is or not, but but it's less usable as well so overall you're hurting yourself by being unhealthy and overweight yeah, and you can't see it as well either exactly damn I couldn't imagine not seeing it.
Speaker 1:It's like there was a point in my life where I, I think, was getting there.
Speaker 2:You had a belly.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Yeah yeah the way you're, the way you carry yourself, what you put into your body. I think I think that Micropenises are a generation thing, though they're a gender. I think micro penises are a generational thing that we're dealing with.
Speaker 1:I don't think that our parents, you, you don't think that they existed, all right I think that's a 2000 someone in the comments um, if you were of our micro penises older generation? Did you ever see any, any micro penises ever?
Speaker 2:I think it's our generation thing yeah, we need to know because men are doing less. That is, they're doing less. I'm talking like caveman style here.
Speaker 1:That is kind of true too, because a new stat came out, that a man's handshake is less firmer than it was years ago.
Speaker 2:Yes, so it's less of a handshake, less of a. It goes right down to testosterone, masculinity and everything in our air our food?
Speaker 1:Yeah, get some hollow boost. If you guys need to boost your T, get some hollow boost. We got everything that you need.
Speaker 2:Everything in our air, our water, our food is anti-healthy hormones.
Speaker 1:Everything in our environment is perpetually trying to kill us, I mean even when we die. The reason that we decay is because the bacteria on our skin finally won Right and it's able to be like great.
Speaker 2:Right, because we were poisoning it for so long.
Speaker 1:Everything in your environment is actively and always trying to kill you. So you do everything to try and either kill it back, guys, they just fucking start doing it themselves. Alcohol and Lysol.
Speaker 2:If you want a bigger penis, stop eating seed oils and start lifting weights. Don't listen to her.
Speaker 1:If you want a bigger penis, go to Pornhub right now. Click on one video and over to the right there is going to be a link to enlarge your penis. Click on that link and if you're afraid to do that, I don't know what to tell you. That's it, that's your take, take whatever they're selling you. Don't, do not, but do cut out seed oil if you can, if you can manage.
Speaker 2:But I want to say, I just want to say, like not shitting on the guys with the small dick, like I want to say you hold it down. I met some nice men treat you like a King in the moment, but I just want to you deserve respect, yeah, I mean.
Speaker 1:I mean respect should always be at the forefront. You know, it's not someone's fault, it's their anatomy. If it's a result of you not taking care of yourself, then that's a completely different issue. And problem, problem, problem, that mezcal kicking in.
Speaker 2:No, that was just my um so, yeah, we don't want to demonize anyone with smaller anatomy because it could be genetic, but most of the time it's your environment and you can make that thing grow if you think hard enough.
Speaker 1:Get some good ideas going fucking pinocchio, get the blood Tell lies.
Speaker 2:What do we have here? Identity crisis for people to attach to what's that I have no idea.
Speaker 1:So Shaylee and I made this giant list of things and there's probably 50 things on here of things that we think are kind of pertinent. I want to talk about beauty standards for women, the media and the world. Yes, please do.
Speaker 2:While we're on the topic of bodies, I don't know much about this, bodies well you do because you consume it when you. You consume it every day okay relax, I'm ready. I'm ready when you open up your social media, like there. I know you're very particular about your algorithms, but you can't everyone.
Speaker 1:Go to my social media right now and look at how many people I'm following. First off, Okay, but let's say, maybe not now, but I will say that there was a point in time where I definitely understand what you're saying.
Speaker 2:You open up your For you page and what is it? Tell me what it was at that point in your life. Tell me what it was. I would assume that it made females feel like. Comparison is the thief of joy maybe you know, but I think what you, what? What we're consuming including me, yeah is big boobs. No, not big boobs, fake breasts okay facial work as like injections and botox and fillers and anything to keep you youthful and young, because that's what we want. We don't want to age right Aging is ugly and bad.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:The perfect body, the big butt, not too big, not too small, perfect.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:The perfect butt, perfect legs, manicured nails, the pedicure, the perfect hair, teeth, makeup, skin, hair, Like it goes on and on and on.
Speaker 1:Do you feel I'm a deep person? Do you feel like women? Coming from someone who's worn a lot of different hats? I've worked in industries where I've had women come into the business and they could be in their 60s and they'll be like I. Gave my husband everything for the past 40 years and he just left me for a 25-year-old and they're moving here. So do you feel like that's an unfortunate thing in society? Or do you think women kind of like put them on themselves so they don't thing in society? Or do you think women kind of like put them on themselves so they don't?
Speaker 2:fall prey to something like that. You know, it's it. It's a weird dichotomy, right? You know? I think women, you know we, we want to do everything in our power to some of us. We want to do everything in our power to look a certain way, uphold a certain standard, be a certain level of attractive and whatever it may be, and that may go as far as needles and knives and cutting yourself open to make yourself look better. Quite literally, yeah, and sometimes that doesn't prevent your husband or boyfriend or whatever, from leaving you.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it's true.
Speaker 2:From having a wandering eye, from wanting something different.
Speaker 1:It's probably deeper than that, to a degree, of course. Yeah, no for sure.
Speaker 2:I don't think that making life-altering decisions about your body and the way that you look is going to keep that person. I think, doing the inner work is really where it's at, and that goes for men too. Are we getting comments?
Speaker 1:Personality and character over any body type.
Speaker 2:Exactly that's the thing. It's doing the inner work. I've never been more comfortable in my skin at this point in my life and I'm still like, oh God, what would it be like to have a nice full C cup? Why do I think that way? What? There's nothing wrong with my boobs, but everywhere I look makes me feel that way. I'm not skinny enough, my boobs aren't big enough. That's how women are. But if you just do the inner work and you can be comfortable in your own skin and you can understand that there's only one of you and that's beautiful and that's okay, we don't need to be cutting ourselves open to keep a man, because if that's what it takes to keep a man, that shouldn't be the kind of guy you want. We can go all day.
Speaker 1:So what do you think about fat models?
Speaker 2:I mean, what are they modeling? They can model whatever they want.
Speaker 1:I'm saying so, like I agree with, like, what you're saying. But what about, to a degree of a woman who, you know, let herself go and she's kind of in a place where she's not taking care of herself, and I don't want to say there's a reason that she's not comfortable in her own skin, but there is a reason for it. Right, when she's overweight, she hasn't been taking care of herself, Like her priorities aren't straight, she's not. You know, she's feeling down. It's like should that person also kind of feel the same way, Are you?
Speaker 2:saying their partner.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I mean like could you understand why someone's partner who has you know given, I mean men and women are so different?
Speaker 2:Men are wired. Different Men are wired for visuals they are. You guys are wired for visuals. Women need connection. You know, I see this dynamic a lot in relationships where the guy's like oh man, you know my girl's not putting out. We're not sleeping together, we're not having sex and the girl's talking to her friends. He won't talk to me, he won't open up, we don't communicate.
Speaker 1:We're two passing ships.
Speaker 2:If he would just talk to me and tell me how he's feeling or sit with me and give me some quality time, it would make me connect to him and want to do that, have sex with them. But guys are just like she's just some guys. I don't want to say guys, she's just not putting out, we're just not having sex. She's you know, she has all the control there and I'm just and it's making them stonewall each other because they're having the same experience but different issues.
Speaker 1:It's just a matter of communicating, for communicating for sure okay, I can't just have sex with you because it's not utility for women.
Speaker 2:Sex is not a utility thing for most women. Men are born and bred to like, quite frankly, ejaculate. Yeah, I want to procreate, you want to procreate. You literally have juices in you that are designed to come out, whether or not you're having sex, whether or not you have a partner. Yeah, it's coming out of you, no matter what you want, no matter what you do.
Speaker 1:Women aren't designed like that Like, even if you dream right, you know. Women, exactly Women aren't designed like that.
Speaker 2:We literally have a little window of time where our body is like the egg is coming. The egg is coming, we must find a mate. And it's like two seconds out of the year out of the month. Men are just designed to just blow off a load and be like feel better. Women are like this little egg is so sacred and it belongs to one person. And and guys are just like my girl won't suck my dick and we're like my little egg, you know it's. We couldn't have more opposite experiences. We're having the human experience, but male and female is so different yeah, so different so what I forgot?
Speaker 2:oh, you were saying like when guys like step out on their girls, when they're like I don't even know if I was saying, well, I was getting there, like when a woman is overweight or doesn't take care of herself, I I can see if a man is really intuitive and into his well-being and his health.
Speaker 2:If your girlfriend or wife is not following suit that lifestyle that you maybe originally started together, yeah, and she's not. She's resistant to getting back on track. I don't blame men for looking the other direction and not wanting to blow up their whole life. They have kids.
Speaker 1:They don't want to divorce and move out like so they, so they commit a crime yeah, women do I mean if your man started acting a complete opposite way from like from when you met him and he wasn't providing as much, or it doesn't switch up on you much it's like it's gonna happen.
Speaker 1:you know, you fall in love with the person for who they are and inherently, a relationship makes people lazy. Whereas you start dating someone and they become your everything and as a man, you want to spend all your time with this woman. And women tend to start to, you know, want to be by their man's side, and they start spending all their time together, avoiding the gym, avoiding healthy meals. It feels good to stay in and stay up all night.
Speaker 2:I mean, like we've all been there, you know there's that healthy weight gain in the beginning of a relationship when everything's great like it's it, it's very normal, but what you lose track?
Speaker 1:of where's the line what you fell in love with to begin with. Like if a woman was attracted to me because I'm gonna go get her. I get shit done, I go to the gym, I eat healthy, I do I do this, do that, and then six months in I had gained 20 pounds and all that stopped and I stopped doing my business work and she's like what the Like? You know, like we're kind of so involved in each other. But once that ends, what she's left with is the fact that I'm not living up to my fullest potential, and then people start looking the other way. So you have to have self-respect and self-advocation and just continue to consistency yeah.
Speaker 2:Take care of yourself in the relation who you were when you started the relationship.
Speaker 1:Yeah, Take care of yourself. Or, you know, if you weren't much in the beginning and someone gave you a chance, then that's also great as an opportunity to fucking become better, you know who's the uh?
Speaker 2:an opportunity to fucking become better. You know who's the uh? The famous fighter whose girlfriend stayed with him from like day one and he was a nobody oh, conor mcgregor yeah, he was nobody. She was with him, yeah and they're going to the fucking craziest shit together and they're on y'all's all the time that can happen, but most of the time women don't have the patience to stick with a guy that's not consistent to where he was when you began.
Speaker 1:Yeah, that's deep, shit's deep, yeah. And as a man, you have to uphold that standard and you have to continue to try and build, if not you're going to lose that woman. It's very unfortunate, you know. Undoubtedly going to lose her. Yeah, it's an unfortunate world that we live in. We're living in a matriarchal society where I just think that the divine feminine has kind of gained a lot more traction. And you know, if you put a woman on the side, like prime example, you don't see many homeless women.
Speaker 2:Not often. No, it's not nearly as much as men not often.
Speaker 1:No, it's not nearly as much as men, it's mostly men. Like women hold a good amount of the power and accessibility and there are a lot of frustrated men out there who can't get women and I mean that's a man's like goal in life, you know, like find someone to settle down with, and there's all these like stigmas right now and it's is that a man's goal? To find a woman. Yeah, I think to find a woman to genetically right like to to provide, I mean intrinsically like men are.
Speaker 1:Yeah, in our, in our privileged society that we live in, it's gone very astray from a traditional like masculine and feminine roles where I think traditionally, like, a man is supposed to protect and provide, but it's kind of gone very south, you know. But I think a man's goal is to find someone to, you know, I don't. I mean, are we going to get into the monogamy type of thing where I mean genetically, like we are, we are designed to procreate. I think genetically, men in general are designed to not be monogamous with our bodies.
Speaker 2:Like the seed is meant to be spread.
Speaker 1:Yeah, Like our biology, we're not meant to be monogamous and that's just a fact, right? But the fact that we're conscious beings who are forever evolving and continue to evolve, the fact that we can even step into the mind frame of settling down with one person forever, that's just your consciousness expanding. So I understand that it's a constant battle between your biology and your consciousness, but that's why we're here To grow and to not just be like we don't have to keep repeating history.
Speaker 1:Yeah, or just like base beings, because if we act off of our instincts, everyone would just be like we don't have to keep repeating history. Yeah, or just like base beings, because if we act off of our instincts, everyone would just be fighting and killing each other, you know. So it's. There is a degree of where we're trying to expand our consciousness evolving, yeah so.
Speaker 1:So ideally, I think a man's goal goal is to find a woman to settle down with or protect them and provide for. And you know that's not every man, but a lot of men don't meet the right woman and it's difficult, it's hard out here for a pimp when you're trying to get this money for the rent.
Speaker 2:I would like to think that that's the truth about men.
Speaker 1:What do you mean I?
Speaker 2:don't know. I don't know if our generation really thinks that way anymore yeah you know, settle like on the topic of monogamy, like I just feel like that's not super prevalent anymore yeah, I mean in different parts of the world, it is a lot different it's normal though, like men have multiple wives, and it's a lot different and it's.
Speaker 1:I would have a completely different outlook if I was born in a different atmosphere. You know, it's just, it's tough. I don't really know what formula works. I will say that the Western world, everything's kind of fucked up right now, so I don't know if it's good or not, you know.
Speaker 2:What's really good and what's really bad, anyway.
Speaker 1:I mean, I mean we could kind of get to the note of like 50 50 and relationships and masculine and feminine roles as a whole, If you want.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I mean I actually recently I know we had this conversation, but I recently, kind of like, brought this up to my boyfriend and you know, like I've been in my masculine for a long time okay, running a business, living by myself so do you think that's hard for women to admit?
Speaker 1:yes what you just said was I'm embodying my masculine yeah and I did this and I did that. It is hard to admit, right?
Speaker 2:because I don't want to, I don't want to be there, you know, but, like I, we live in a society where it's like frowned upon for women to still like be home and doing nothing and cleaning the house and cooking and whatever like, because, like, we're not all having kids, we're not not all women are having kids. So it's like, well, why, why should a man take care of everything if you're not doing the old traditional thing that women were doing, which was barefoot at home and pregnant and with 2.5 children holding down the fort while he's out making the bread? I just think those gender roles still play a part.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:They still play a part. I don't think that, like, just because I don't have a kid doesn't mean that I'm not doing the majority of the cooking and part yeah, they still play a part. I don't think that, like, cause, just because I don't have a kid doesn't mean that I'm not doing the majority of the cooking, cleaning and yeah.
Speaker 2:And like giving a man your energy. At the end of the day, like sexually, like I have to still have that energy stored in my body. But how do you expect that from me If I've worked a 10 hour day, ran my business? I'm in a band saying, saying in my band for money. You know, I don't do it for free. Been doing it for 13 years.
Speaker 1:Yeah, so, running two businesses, living by myself, having pets and also feeding you, washing your clothes, cleaning the house, and then at the end of the day you know like you want to give that to your man, but it's like I'm yeah, and you can't give it to your man because you spent your entire day embodying a masculine frame, where, as a man, spent all day embodying his masculine frame and then when he wants sex, it's because it's not an emotional thing to him, it's utility, it's just something that he wants to do. So the way that society is is so unnatural right now, right when I understand that you know, I understand, like being at home with kids is fucking probably the hardest thing a woman could ever do.
Speaker 1:It's very difficult and it's full time and it's just Brian. It's hard to find someone that wants to settle down and have a long-lasting relationship. Yeah, it's Brian. I don't know if you live in America. I'm guessing you do In the Western world.
Speaker 2:this world is the Western world is very.
Speaker 1:It's very tough right now. You know masculine and female roles are kind of all over the place. Traditional masculinity is, I think, think under attack in general, like if you're a masculine man, like in the media or just by everyone around you, you just kind of get put down and that's just.
Speaker 2:I'm about to go on a rant I don't, you know, I don't want to shit on anyone who, because there's a lot of men that are in their feminine, you know like yeah women are out here making six figures and paying all the.
Speaker 1:Don't you find that annoying?
Speaker 1:there's a little part of me yeah okay, this legs, let's break it down right. So, as I'm gonna for a second, not because of my ego, just for the story, okay, I'm gonna call myself a high value man. Okay, right, if I were to meet a high value woman who was trying to do everything that I'm doing, she'd be, and I was like you know what? This is kind of weird for me, and her instinctual thing would be to like well, does it intimidate you? And I would be like it actually kind of annoys me.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's a constant dick measuring contest and I don't want to. I don't. We all, like you, have a vagina and a penis. I have a penis and a vagina. I don't ever want to whip my dick out. You don't want to show me your pussy, exactly and just and on the opposite end of the spectrum, right.
Speaker 1:So like let's get off the hyper-masculine. Let's say, as a woman, you're hyper-feminine and your man starts acting super flamboyant and feminine.
Speaker 2:I'm turned off. Exactly, I'm turned off.
Speaker 2:It's annoying I want a guy boots on the ground like, hey, see you at dinner tonight Going to make us money Out there hustling. And I do have a boyfriend and I know he's watching this and I'm not. This is not this. You do embody this if you're listening. Love you, baby. You do embody this. But, like, currently I still am working like a fucking dog yeah, I wouldn't say dog, but I'm working. I'm working and that's fine. I want to work, I want to have my business, I like what I do, but I want to enjoy the other parts of my life too. I don't want to get home exhausted and give yeah and give that extra energy.
Speaker 1:So I just I can break it down in a way that's super easy for people let's hear it okay, so all right. So you have two people. They're working the same amount, like, let's say, you work 40, he works 40, right. Whoever's making more money out of that, whether it be because they're more educated or they get a better job, if you're making more money, then you should be contributing more in general.
Speaker 2:That's just a fact of the matter man or woman?
Speaker 1:Yeah, man or woman, if you're making more money, there is no reason why you shouldn't be contributing more. That's your partner. You're supposed to hold them down. You should be contributing, right. So that's like that kind of like right off, rip evens the playing field, right. Like you have more income, you're my partner. Like you're my spouse. If our rent's a hundred, if our rent's a thousand a month which I feel like I fucking wish it was a thousand a month right not around here and your man's making 100k and you're making 60, you know he shouldn't be 50, should be contributing more in general, right.
Speaker 1:So that's the first thing. The next thing is kind of the idea of protection for sex, because a lot of men who love a woman like kind of get in relationship and they think that they buy all these nice things in order to get a woman's sex and sex out of them. But I think inherently, like when a woman settles down with a man in general, I'm hoping it's because they think that a man would lay their life down for them, right where, as like men throughout history, for the past, I mean I could go back 200. I mean like we could go back to. I think it was like 1912 was when the titanic went down and women and children.
Speaker 1:Women and children left and men stayed on the and drowned and froze their asses and died. So it's men in, intrinsically, are constantly in a battle from society when they have a woman, and that is just something a woman will never understand. If your boyfriend meets me, the minute he sees me, the first thing he's gonna say, say in his mind is can I take him, yes or no? That's just how men operate, that's just how we do, no matter who you meet as a man.
Speaker 2:And I respect it. That's hilarious, that's true, that's exactly how men operate.
Speaker 1:So when you're with someone, like again the morning thing out of the way as a man, it kind of makes it an uneven balance, because as a man, when it comes down to it, you're supposed to put your life on the line for your woman. If someone breaks into your house, you're not going to look to your girl and be like you should go check that out. You have to put yourself on the line. Now there really isn't something for a man that could replace that from a woman. So we replace that where. If I'm going to do that for you, then I want sex. Yeah Right.
Speaker 2:Exchanging of energies.
Speaker 1:Exactly. But society is so fucked up that men think that if they do all these things, that they should get sex out of a woman. And then it makes this like that.
Speaker 2:It's the intent behind what they're doing.
Speaker 1:For sure.
Speaker 2:What's the intent? Because, what's the intent. What is the because? What's the goal? You know what's the intent. Is it because it's just born and bred in you to want to provide, protect and and serve, and whatever? But that's not the majority of men anymore no, if the intent behind it is literally to come and to say you did it with that one yeah say louder for the boys in the back.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah it's tough, so again back to the money.
Speaker 1:So whoever in the relationship, Whoever's making more money should be contributing more, right. And then there becomes a value of protection for sex. But then again it's kind of like, if you look at an armed guard at a bank and I'm going to advocate for women at this point right, if you look at an armed guard on a bank, right, his job is very important, it could get robbed today. Does that make his job any less valuable? But you can't really use it as a current argument where, hey, I'm going to protect you in this world, so have sex with me all the time. So it becomes where a man I don't know if it's more of a financial contribution or like what it is, so I don't really. I honestly haven't figured that one out yet, because there may come a time where a man has to lay his life down, but you can't really put a price on that, but you can't like dangle that as forever.
Speaker 2:Like as a thing where the chances that what?
Speaker 1:if someone breaks into the house, and because of that, because I would risk my life for you, I need you to do xyz, it's, it's, it doesn't work it's a weird dichotomy.
Speaker 2:It's just the same thing as women saying, well, I had your children, so you have to like, but that's not.
Speaker 1:Yeah, that's not valid either it's a weird dichotomy, it's it, I get it so so. So that becomes kind of null and void to a degree, right? So back to the money thing, cool, and then it's a time thing, right when? So I addressed 40-40 and a man's making more money and she's making less. But what if, in a world where I only work 20 hours, right, and in my 20 hours I make more than your 40? Now what do we do? Because I have a bunch of extra free time where I could be doing these domesticated things, right?
Speaker 1:but I'm working 40 hours so it's like where does the balance come into play there? It's, it's tough and the best thing that you can do is sit down with your partner and figure it out. And if you're in a relationship where a woman is working 20 hours and making way more than her man, who's working 40 hours, it's just an unnatural balance to begin with. Because then, as a woman who's working 20, was making all this money, and you're like damn, should I embody my feminine? Do I have to like make all this money and like pay for all these bills and just and still cook and clean and do all this stuff.
Speaker 1:That's why there's no, there's no balance and then as a man where if you're working 20 and she's working 40 and you're like shit, I don't want to cook and clean either. You know so you, you have you have to fine tune these things, and to a literal T.
Speaker 2:Although I'd like to say, like, if I'm in a relationship with a guy and he's doing great, maybe making more money than me, I'm still working. I have my own income. God forbid something happens to him. Yeah, I'm holding it down, I'm going, I'm going to go work more. I'm going, I'm gonna go work more.
Speaker 1:I'm gonna go you know, make more money.
Speaker 2:I'm gonna stay busy do you think you would do that though?
Speaker 1:yes, I 100 would do, you think?
Speaker 2:the majority woman would it depends on how you feel about your.
Speaker 1:It really all comes down to how you feel about them, so I I said this on a different podcast and the sad reality of of the world is that, as a man, your one goal here is to protect and provide. Well, two goals right. And the sad reality that we live in is the minute that you're born as a man, you sign on a dotted line that if you're not able to protect and provide that, people are probably going to leave you. What do you?
Speaker 2:bring to the table. We want to know what each other bring to the table. You want to know what a woman brings to the table.
Speaker 1:But if it's ever a moment where a man can no longer protect and provide, how long would the average woman really want to sustain doing all that?
Speaker 2:Well, I've experienced it and I can say for sure that was one of the shorter, one of my shorter relationships. It has a time, but when you bring nothing to the table. What's what's brian saying?
Speaker 1:he said but what if you put it this way a woman's working because she wants to work and then all she asks is for the man to stay home and watch the children because she doesn't mind being the breadwinner? I, I don't think that's okay. Listen, the universe works in dualities. Masculine doesn't complement masculine and feminine doesn't complement feminine, right? If your girl is a, is a breadwinner, she's embodying her hyper masculine, she's a go-getter and she's getting it done, then accept the fact that she's embodying her masculine. And if you're just kind of chilling, sitting at home and not doing much and taking care of the kids, I mean, I don't even want to say not doing much, right, like you're a full-time yeah, like yours, but you're embodying more of a feminine nature.
Speaker 1:you have to understand that in general, the masculine is more of a demanding. If I say this, it goes like if your woman comes home from work and she says some shit, you kind of got to be like okay, well, she's in charge, she pays all the bills, she does this.
Speaker 2:There's a financial I have to rely on this person.
Speaker 1:So to a degree if there's a financial responsibility, then you know I kind of have to agree to what they say, and if I don't, then I got to get out of it. But the issue is, is that who actually have shit going for them? Don't be sitting on your couch and your woman had just worked a 40-hour week and she comes home and you've just been sitting around all day doing fuck all and you're being a waste bucket and you're like where's my coffee? Where's my meal? Your woman is embodying the masculine. She's the breadwinner. Have that dinner ready for her when she gets home, because that's your fucking role. Like, don't fall prey to something that someone says about the masculine frame when you're not being masculine right.
Speaker 2:as a woman, I want to say like to men who think it's feminine or makes you a pussy or a bitch to serve your woman if she's working and if there's a power differential with a financial difference or workload difference, it does not make you a pussy to have dinner ready for your girlfriend.
Speaker 1:You still have to find the balance in it, right.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:If you guys are both working 40 hours a week and for some reason your man gets out early on a Friday, he should have dinner ready for you.
Speaker 2:Figure it out.
Speaker 1:I don't know, I don't want to think about it and even to a degree, if, like, let's say, he was paying for more in general, great right.
Speaker 1:But then it becomes more of a convenience thing where, okay, I'm out early, I know I'm paying for more, but I'm still a human being it makes sense that I could have dinner ready 100 doesn't make you a pussy, yeah but if, if you have clear roles as a man and a woman, whereas, like, as a man, if you're the breadwinner and your girl's staying at home taking care of the kids, doing this and doing that, like then, like, then embody that to its fullest. Like its fullest degree. Like, make sure that you're paying for everything you're providing you're still being a man and make sure that, like, your woman is doing her job too. Like you don't want to come home to your kids with fucking full diapers, no food on the table. Like it is a. It's a. It's a full-time job in and of itself too. And to provide for someone is like, yeah, don't be gold dog. Like don't, don't fall prey to that. Like, if you're paying for everything and your woman is not putting out, she's barely fucking talking, reciprocating yeah, like you like don't.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it's, it's very difficult.
Speaker 2:There was a. There should be an even energy exchange. If a guy is going to pay for everything like and it's a genuine connection, you're not just like being used, your woman should be 100 if your relationship is good. I understand there's nuanced everything that's. I'm not talking about sugar daddy situation yeah I'm talking about a genuine relationship where this is the dynamic your woman should be pleasing you. If you are, if you are taking care of everything else someone said that's why most men go to other countries.
Speaker 1:Yeah, he ain't wrong it is, um, in this day and age, um, in the western world, it is hard to date. Uh, the girl that I'm dating actually is not from this country. Um, it would be very difficult for me to date a Western woman Like my girl has value, she has culture. It's hard to speak to someone who thinks that they have plenty of options, which, to a degree, you do, but if you walk around acting like that again, that's quality.
Speaker 2:I prefer to live quality over quantity.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it's just not. You know it's it, you know it's, it's. It's very tough. Uh, this world is all about instant gratification, open access, like you turn on social media or you go on your dating app and it's complete incident. Well, yeah, for a woman too, but yeah, yeah, men, it's more of like a fantasy it's way too accessible for everybody yeah, more for women, which is why they're kind of have more of of the power right now in the dating world because, like you guys, hold the key to what we want.
Speaker 2:It's true, I went on I mean anytime I ask anybody who's on dating apps like a guy I'm like how the match is going? Ah, not good. And I'm like I'm genuinely blown away because I'm like I went on 30 dates last year. I'm blown away. I'm like, ah, no luck, no luck on these apps. And I'm like, really, Crazy. That's interesting, yeah, interesting, the experience you're having.
Speaker 1:Yeah, the dating world for men is a lot more unfortunate than it is for women and, as a man, if you're struggling in the dating world like you're on dating apps you and as a man, if you're struggling in the dating world like you're on dating apps you're not getting likes or hits or just in general in your life, you're not really getting much attention. I will say that the only thing that you can probably do is increase your value, and by increasing your value is you exercise, you take care of yourself, you articulate yourself better, you try and do some form of something to make money, generate income, and your pool of dating might even shrink even more, but just know that more quality girls you're actually waiting out all the bullshit, so you just gotta do the best you can try to increase everything about yourself, because if you don't, as a man you like, you gotta realize you will fade into history unremembered, which is a very sad thing for a man.
Speaker 1:Again back to the rocking chair days. You don't want to sit somewhere one day and be like I didn't do shit with my life.
Speaker 2:I was born the scariest things to me I was born a man.
Speaker 1:I had all these capabilities. I had all this ambition. Men will fight and die for streets in a gang. Men can get so hyped up together in a war that they'll charge into open gunfire together. It's inside of you to take a hold of your life. Stop giving a fuck about shit that you shouldn't give a shit about. Make better decisions in your business. Make better decisions for your body and for the people around you. It's like it's inside of you as a man and embody your masculine. Don't be afraid to. And if you don't want to do that, then completely embody your feminine and let a woman stop being in the limbo.
Speaker 2:Yeah, stop being in the limbo. Being in that purgatory only fucks with women's heads oh my god, you can when you show masculine at one at one moment and then feminine another. And I get it. We all have it in us to be both.
Speaker 1:There's duality and everything, but you, you gotta just yeah, but it's it's supposed to compliment right, like prime example, I work like you, I fucking work, but still I wake up next to my girl and my newborn son, right, and she was up all night with him the other night. So it's like, when I get up and she's done that and I know she's probably going to like sleep through the time where she should cook, I'm like I got to cook for myself right now and I'll make a little extra for her. So it's like, again, is that me embodying my feminine?
Speaker 1:No, it's just me being a decent fucking human being where, okay, she was like, whereas on the other side I could be like, okay, I work 16 hours today. I need my sleep, right, I wake up. She's not up yet. Do I wake her up and be like, hey, cook me my breakfast, cook me my fucking food? Because so it's like there is a degree where you have to advocate for your person now. Again, if this were to happen perpetually, that's a different story. But again, I have a newborn, so it's different. So like she's up all the time I get it, it's different. But again, if you're the breadwinner and you're not getting anything in return, what are you doing?
Speaker 2:It's not a partnership. Yeah, what are you doing? Partnerships are supposed to be mutually beneficial. So, in summary, fucking be in your masculine.
Speaker 1:I don't even know where we went with that. Be in your masculine it was great, though A couple of moments.
Speaker 2:Let your girl be in her feminine, because there's no worse place to be than in your masculine. When you're a woman, I don't want to be there.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but so many women enjoy that these days.
Speaker 2:And like I don't know if it's not having a proper masculine figure growing up or yeah we got our daddy issues out here.
Speaker 1:Yeah, we got the daddy issues yeah it's like you want to kind of like embody something that, like, you didn't have and I get it too and it's all about, like safety and stability these days, because at any point in time, this society could go to complete shit. It already is, but the but what women don't understand is that the reason why you're behaving like this is because you're trying to get some form of safety in a world that it's completely unsafe, where, as if there was nuclear warfare tomorrow and everything went to complete shit and everything was eradicated electronics, food sources woman would start embodying their feminine and men would go out and try and find the food and protect them and provide. So it's, it's like it's you're kind of building a persona off of a false basis and you kind of.
Speaker 2:I read something today like same thing, same vibe. It was like women maintain their masculine not because they want to, but because we have a lack of trust. Yeah, In our not our partners, but yeah, in the masculine. Yeah, no, we have a lack of trust. I will say that like men in general.
Speaker 1:these days it's a lot different and it's because there was a shift where the men were in charge and now we don't know who the fuck's in charge and now it's switching and there's just going to be a readjustment period, and I'm not even saying as far as like expanding consciousness, where, like men can't start embodying their feminine. Okay, I can understand that. Uh, is it? Is it natural? I don't, I don't know that it is like we're born with all the characteristics and the instincts to want to be go-getters. We're physically built for we can fight, we can defend, so to kind of go against that, that's like. One day you might wake up and be like what the fuck have I been doing this entire time? So again carrying, oh, we've been doing this entire time. So again carrying. Oh, we've been going. How much time. 2, 2.12. A lot of clippable moments too. It's bedtime, yeah right. Well, we thank you all for tuning in.
Speaker 2:Yeah, this was a great conversation. We're gonna I'm coming back, yeah, I'm coming back for more. Yeah, every other thursday. I want to see a new mask next time. Yeah, yeah, no, I got plenty more. This has been great. Thank you guys for all tuning in. We got some good comments.
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Speaker 2:Thank you guys so much for tuning in. Thank you for having me, pat yeah we'll see you next time.
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